"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Best Outer game method if you already have looks and confidence?

DannyM

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Hi guys,

pretty new to pickup but was wondering as i am good looking guy and have decent inner game but sometimes mess things up due to what i say, what would be thr best outer game for me to learn? Read mystery method but didn't really like it!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Zarky

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think you need to be a little more specific. what is it you say that 'messes things up' and what didn't you 'like' about Mystery's stuff.
 

DannyM

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yes sorry! I mean i do get iois and approached by women but sometimes I mess it up when talking to them! Its just most of the outer game stuff i read is just not congruent with who i am, I mean I would rather be direct than all the misdirection stuff in MM.
 

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DannyM said:
yes sorry! I mean i do get iois and approached by women but sometimes I mess it up when talking to them! Its just most of the outer game stuff i read is just not congruent with who i am, I mean I would rather be direct than all the misdirection stuff in MM.
Im in the same situation bro, I understand where your coming from.

Check out Mode One.

http://www.amazon.com/Mode-One-Women-REALLY-Thinking/dp/1591138973

Also read here.

http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/?img05

You can also buy the Layguide by Tony Click, its basically FastSeduction put into a book.
 

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Look up Sinn's stuff. I highly recommend the majority of what he teaches- the basic gist of it being to show INTENT without acting weird. If you're a good looking guy, girls that are "available" will usually be very receptive of you at the onset. All you need to do from there is not screw things up by acting too aloof, boring, or socially awkward.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It depends,

The girls are attracted or not?

If they are attracted right off the bat, Just go direct and qualify them after 30 seconds.
 
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