"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Best Outer game method if you already have looks and confidence?

DannyM

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Hi guys,

pretty new to pickup but was wondering as i am good looking guy and have decent inner game but sometimes mess things up due to what i say, what would be thr best outer game for me to learn? Read mystery method but didn't really like it!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Zarky

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think you need to be a little more specific. what is it you say that 'messes things up' and what didn't you 'like' about Mystery's stuff.
 

DannyM

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yes sorry! I mean i do get iois and approached by women but sometimes I mess it up when talking to them! Its just most of the outer game stuff i read is just not congruent with who i am, I mean I would rather be direct than all the misdirection stuff in MM.
 

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DannyM said:
yes sorry! I mean i do get iois and approached by women but sometimes I mess it up when talking to them! Its just most of the outer game stuff i read is just not congruent with who i am, I mean I would rather be direct than all the misdirection stuff in MM.
Im in the same situation bro, I understand where your coming from.

Check out Mode One.

http://www.amazon.com/Mode-One-Women-REALLY-Thinking/dp/1591138973

Also read here.

http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/?img05

You can also buy the Layguide by Tony Click, its basically FastSeduction put into a book.
 

Jeffst1980

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Look up Sinn's stuff. I highly recommend the majority of what he teaches- the basic gist of it being to show INTENT without acting weird. If you're a good looking guy, girls that are "available" will usually be very receptive of you at the onset. All you need to do from there is not screw things up by acting too aloof, boring, or socially awkward.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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influencemaster

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It depends,

The girls are attracted or not?

If they are attracted right off the bat, Just go direct and qualify them after 30 seconds.
 
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