"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Best Outer game method if you already have looks and confidence?

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DannyM

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Hi guys,

pretty new to pickup but was wondering as i am good looking guy and have decent inner game but sometimes mess things up due to what i say, what would be thr best outer game for me to learn? Read mystery method but didn't really like it!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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think you need to be a little more specific. what is it you say that 'messes things up' and what didn't you 'like' about Mystery's stuff.
 
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yes sorry! I mean i do get iois and approached by women but sometimes I mess it up when talking to them! Its just most of the outer game stuff i read is just not congruent with who i am, I mean I would rather be direct than all the misdirection stuff in MM.
 
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DannyM said:
yes sorry! I mean i do get iois and approached by women but sometimes I mess it up when talking to them! Its just most of the outer game stuff i read is just not congruent with who i am, I mean I would rather be direct than all the misdirection stuff in MM.
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Im in the same situation bro, I understand where your coming from.

Check out Mode One.

http://www.amazon.com/Mode-One-Women-REALLY-Thinking/dp/1591138973

Also read here.

http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/?img05

You can also buy the Layguide by Tony Click, its basically FastSeduction put into a book.
 
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Look up Sinn's stuff. I highly recommend the majority of what he teaches- the basic gist of it being to show INTENT without acting weird. If you're a good looking guy, girls that are "available" will usually be very receptive of you at the onset. All you need to do from there is not screw things up by acting too aloof, boring, or socially awkward.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It depends,

The girls are attracted or not?

If they are attracted right off the bat, Just go direct and qualify them after 30 seconds.
 
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