guru1000
Master Don Juan
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You called my name forth once again so I can only interpret you needed something from me. You also did the same various times when you were allegedly drunk--which I left alone. You certainly did not come in truth in that statement as I never came to you regarding anything other than a discussion that we Both had regarding Egoless Love over several months which ultimately ended in you cursing me out when we disagreed lolGuru i have nothing against you. The Energy it would take for me to go to kindergarten mode with a random internet guy I never met before doesn’t exist in my psyche, lol. I’m sorry you are offended that I mentioned you came to me asking about your sticking points.
I didn’t know your ego would react like this, lol. I assumed you were egoless. Actually if I am completely honest, I purposely tried to rub your ego the wrong way just to see if what you claim about being egoless was true or not, lol. I knew you had a lot of pride in your game.
If you want to debate about the topic on hand - which is initiative vs compliance, I would be more than happy to do so as I’ve shown throughout this thread.
As far as being emotional and taking things personal, it doesn’t really exist within me. I don’t hate you or despise you or feel anyway really to engage in that type of dialogue. I think you’ve mistaken me for your arch nemesis @Spaz, lol
I think he would be more than happy to tangle with you.
Honestly I think it’s flattering I’m made out to be such a big deal that people feel the need to “expose” me, lol. Grown men with jobs feel the need to exert that much energy.
Unfortunately I don’t feel the same way about anybody on this forum to engage in that. If it requires more than 1% of my brain cells and feels like work, I’m not interested.
I have no ego invested in this forum. Believe it or not, my long ass posts are completely effortless. You can start and dedicate a thread to expose me and it will make no difference. My presence will still rise to the top and my message will be delivered. That’s how I’ve always been my entire life. I usually become the tallest branch without trying and people try to cut me down to size.
But enough of this back and forth. Why don’t you give us your stance on the subject and I’ll see what frame you are coming from.
Is it better that women initiate or comply?
So you prompt me to enter this thread and then when I enter, say that I am offended by a false statement that you made?
As to the subject matter of the thread: yes it is Better when a woman initiates and complies. She must always comply (otherwise I am no longer giving her value). However, it is irrelevant to me whether she initiates (before and during the courting phase). I hold no fear of rejection as I am not asking anything from her that she can reject. If a girl's energy attracts me, then I will bless her with my value. The subject of who initiates is of no consequence. No rejection can occur nor is thought about because I am simply giving her value, the same manner an anonymous donator would donate with the spirit of giving to an institution.
These days, unlike my previous, I strive to governed by one rule: Complete Authenticity. IF I am attracted to something, I will provide value to IT/HIM/HER as the attraction was there to begin with and so not to act upon that attraction would only betray my own energy. The distinction here is my attraction prompts my intent to Give value, as opposed to taking/stripping value via some unilateral gain for me alone.
Nonetheless, the above is only my theoretical position. Not what I actually practice. I don't practice approaching women in any avenue whether OLD, socially, or in person because my plate is always full. But I do understand that my position is not likely the position of many who frequent the forum. Many here simply do not have the physical, financial or social faculties YET to meet attractive women easily and effortlessly. Many here would be shunned in social circles. Many here would have zero options if they failed to take the initiative of any kind. So for their benefit, I lay out a theoretical position as if I sat in their shoes.