I've been in a LTR with this girl for about 8 months. It's been a LDR for about 1 month. So, one of my good good friends somehow has her number. He talked to her from time to time, I let him. It's not like I'm insecure about it. So anyway, he becomes angry because I let him speak to her (talk about insecurity) and then he says: "I'm going to try to take your girl away from you". I still incouraged him and told him good luck at this point. But what really bothers me is that he would say something like this let alone think it. What a friend huh?
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Joe The Homophobe
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how can you call him a "good good friend" when he says something like that?? that is outright insolent! I don't even want to know how your not so good friends are like 
Stealth Rebelfighter
Don Juan
I personally wonder: Maybe hes angry that you let him speak to her that hes just saying **** just to get you rowled up??
Ya ever had a friend with a different set of morals as you? Lets say that Im a total pimpdaddy that get around all the time but my friend attests that idea. He would consider you more like a *****. Plus he may stick to that idea to the point where he feels should be feel the same way he does. Yes....Everybody should that ***** as much as he does. Now since physical violence is not the culturaly accepted way of dealing with "problems" the next option is to push their beliefs through preaching, griping, mocking, or starting some ****.
On a final note: If your bud is kinda like what I described....I dont care if hes just tryin to press his beliefs, Id just want to tell him to **** off. Like I said I dont know him. Whatever
Ya ever had a friend with a different set of morals as you? Lets say that Im a total pimpdaddy that get around all the time but my friend attests that idea. He would consider you more like a *****. Plus he may stick to that idea to the point where he feels should be feel the same way he does. Yes....Everybody should that ***** as much as he does. Now since physical violence is not the culturaly accepted way of dealing with "problems" the next option is to push their beliefs through preaching, griping, mocking, or starting some ****.
On a final note: If your bud is kinda like what I described....I dont care if hes just tryin to press his beliefs, Id just want to tell him to **** off. Like I said I dont know him. Whatever
cfajason
Don Juan
Beat the living **** out of him!!!!!!!!!!!!!He is not a friend!!!!
blueangel83
Senior Don Juan
That is actually a good test to see if she is wifey material.
Wifey Material - will be faithful to you no matter what.
Wifey Material - will be faithful to you no matter what.
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The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Bros before hoes. He should of thought of your friendship before he went to try to get this girl. I suggest you stop being friends with him. How can you trust him? He tried to take your girl imagine what he would try to take from you if he had the chance.
LittleBigOne
Don Juan
I was also in a situation like that with a former GF. My 'friend' was visiting my GF n the store where she used to work and asked things about my relation with her etc. And all the time he saw her he was trying to get her attention. He was just jealous because he didn't had a GF and i did. I never see him again, i hope you see that lad who is chasing your GF never again either. Kick him out of your life.
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This guy really doesn't sound like much of a friend.
WORKEROUTER
Master Don Juan
Doesn't sound like your choice of "best" friends is the greatest. Ignore the guy and move on with your life. Remain confident and don't start being AFC about it to your gf. If she's going to cheat, there's really nothing you can do.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
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GirlCrazy
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Yeah, that's a pretty good test for her.
Your buddy already failed the test. Bros before hoes - no exceptions.
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Why was he calling your GF??? I've never understood the need to have my GF and friends become buddies.
B-Lemond
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Bros before hoes, dude.
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How did he get her number???
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Bros before hoes.
so your saying shes a ho?
can't argue with that
alright we'll give your a break tits.
what he's trying to say is that if she is faithful then she has a good trait which he looks for in a wife.
Made perfect sence to me.
so your saying shes a ho?
can't argue with that
alright we'll give your a break tits.
what he's trying to say is that if she is faithful then she has a good trait which he looks for in a wife.
Made perfect sence to me.
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So if she doesnt cheat with the other bonehead thats a green flag thats shes marriage material?
You guys really are desperate.
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