DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
Might have to move to Britain next summer. Just curious what you guys think
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Best city in the UK?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Ahah, well I'm kinda biased.
But what you looking for in a city?
But what you looking for in a city?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
It's the gay capital of the UK.
yungahdubz
Senior Don Juan
Birmingham is pretty good in my opinion, im sorta biased too. :rock:
But it is quite a good city, lots of places to go out etc.
But it is quite a good city, lots of places to go out etc.
DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
So I take it you guys like London! I don't fancy London too much, been there about 8 times, from what I gather, it's a very expensive, dirty, noisy, non-English city. But maybe I'm wrong?
What am I looking for in a city? Peacefulness, parks, "areas of outstanding natural beauty", high quality of living....the rest follows. Brighton is a well good idea,,but my firm doesnt have an office there
What am I looking for in a city? Peacefulness, parks, "areas of outstanding natural beauty", high quality of living....the rest follows. Brighton is a well good idea,,but my firm doesnt have an office there
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
I hear london is realll expensive and kinda overated, but a place like Leeds is a college/university town and so its booming a bit... wikipedia the places and do some research man
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
TheMainMan
Don Juan
Mate, I'll tell you like it is.DrMetallica said:So I take it you guys like London! I don't fancy London too much, been there about 8 times, from what I gather, it's a very expensive, dirty, noisy, non-English city. But maybe I'm wrong?
What am I looking for in a city? Peacefulness, parks, "areas of outstanding natural beauty", high quality of living....the rest follows. Brighton is a well good idea,,but my firm doesnt have an office there
London - great, expensive, unfriendly. You've seen it and done it.
Forget about the South if you want beauty, chilled out pace of life, good quality of life then head to Manchester or Bristol. These are probably the best two options.
Manchester - The coolest city outside London. 1 hour from the lake district, the most beautiful countryside in the UK.
Forget about Birmingham or Liverpool there a bit of dump.
TheMainMan
Don Juan
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Manchester
If your less than 35yo then Manchester is the place to be in the UK. The city is a 20s-30s place.
If your less than 35yo then Manchester is the place to be in the UK. The city is a 20s-30s place.