DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
Might have to move to Britain next summer. Just curious what you guys think
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Best city in the UK?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Ahah, well I'm kinda biased.
But what you looking for in a city?
But what you looking for in a city?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
It's the gay capital of the UK.
yungahdubz
Senior Don Juan
Birmingham is pretty good in my opinion, im sorta biased too. :rock:
But it is quite a good city, lots of places to go out etc.
But it is quite a good city, lots of places to go out etc.
DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
So I take it you guys like London! I don't fancy London too much, been there about 8 times, from what I gather, it's a very expensive, dirty, noisy, non-English city. But maybe I'm wrong?
What am I looking for in a city? Peacefulness, parks, "areas of outstanding natural beauty", high quality of living....the rest follows. Brighton is a well good idea,,but my firm doesnt have an office there
What am I looking for in a city? Peacefulness, parks, "areas of outstanding natural beauty", high quality of living....the rest follows. Brighton is a well good idea,,but my firm doesnt have an office there
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
I hear london is realll expensive and kinda overated, but a place like Leeds is a college/university town and so its booming a bit... wikipedia the places and do some research man
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
TheMainMan
Don Juan
Mate, I'll tell you like it is.DrMetallica said:So I take it you guys like London! I don't fancy London too much, been there about 8 times, from what I gather, it's a very expensive, dirty, noisy, non-English city. But maybe I'm wrong?
What am I looking for in a city? Peacefulness, parks, "areas of outstanding natural beauty", high quality of living....the rest follows. Brighton is a well good idea,,but my firm doesnt have an office there
London - great, expensive, unfriendly. You've seen it and done it.
Forget about the South if you want beauty, chilled out pace of life, good quality of life then head to Manchester or Bristol. These are probably the best two options.
Manchester - The coolest city outside London. 1 hour from the lake district, the most beautiful countryside in the UK.
Forget about Birmingham or Liverpool there a bit of dump.
TheMainMan
Don Juan
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Manchester
If your less than 35yo then Manchester is the place to be in the UK. The city is a 20s-30s place.
If your less than 35yo then Manchester is the place to be in the UK. The city is a 20s-30s place.