DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
Might have to move to Britain next summer. Just curious what you guys think
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Best city in the UK?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Ahah, well I'm kinda biased.
But what you looking for in a city?
But what you looking for in a city?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
It's the gay capital of the UK.
yungahdubz
Senior Don Juan
Birmingham is pretty good in my opinion, im sorta biased too. :rock:
But it is quite a good city, lots of places to go out etc.
But it is quite a good city, lots of places to go out etc.
DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
So I take it you guys like London! I don't fancy London too much, been there about 8 times, from what I gather, it's a very expensive, dirty, noisy, non-English city. But maybe I'm wrong?
What am I looking for in a city? Peacefulness, parks, "areas of outstanding natural beauty", high quality of living....the rest follows. Brighton is a well good idea,,but my firm doesnt have an office there
What am I looking for in a city? Peacefulness, parks, "areas of outstanding natural beauty", high quality of living....the rest follows. Brighton is a well good idea,,but my firm doesnt have an office there
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
I hear london is realll expensive and kinda overated, but a place like Leeds is a college/university town and so its booming a bit... wikipedia the places and do some research man
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
TheMainMan
Don Juan
Mate, I'll tell you like it is.DrMetallica said:So I take it you guys like London! I don't fancy London too much, been there about 8 times, from what I gather, it's a very expensive, dirty, noisy, non-English city. But maybe I'm wrong?
What am I looking for in a city? Peacefulness, parks, "areas of outstanding natural beauty", high quality of living....the rest follows. Brighton is a well good idea,,but my firm doesnt have an office there
London - great, expensive, unfriendly. You've seen it and done it.
Forget about the South if you want beauty, chilled out pace of life, good quality of life then head to Manchester or Bristol. These are probably the best two options.
Manchester - The coolest city outside London. 1 hour from the lake district, the most beautiful countryside in the UK.
Forget about Birmingham or Liverpool there a bit of dump.
TheMainMan
Don Juan
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Manchester
If your less than 35yo then Manchester is the place to be in the UK. The city is a 20s-30s place.
If your less than 35yo then Manchester is the place to be in the UK. The city is a 20s-30s place.