DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
Might have to move to Britain next summer. Just curious what you guys think
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Best city in the UK?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Ahah, well I'm kinda biased.
But what you looking for in a city?
But what you looking for in a city?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
It's the gay capital of the UK.
yungahdubz
Senior Don Juan
Birmingham is pretty good in my opinion, im sorta biased too. :rock:
But it is quite a good city, lots of places to go out etc.
But it is quite a good city, lots of places to go out etc.
DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
So I take it you guys like London! I don't fancy London too much, been there about 8 times, from what I gather, it's a very expensive, dirty, noisy, non-English city. But maybe I'm wrong?
What am I looking for in a city? Peacefulness, parks, "areas of outstanding natural beauty", high quality of living....the rest follows. Brighton is a well good idea,,but my firm doesnt have an office there
What am I looking for in a city? Peacefulness, parks, "areas of outstanding natural beauty", high quality of living....the rest follows. Brighton is a well good idea,,but my firm doesnt have an office there
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
I hear london is realll expensive and kinda overated, but a place like Leeds is a college/university town and so its booming a bit... wikipedia the places and do some research man
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
TheMainMan
Don Juan
Mate, I'll tell you like it is.DrMetallica said:So I take it you guys like London! I don't fancy London too much, been there about 8 times, from what I gather, it's a very expensive, dirty, noisy, non-English city. But maybe I'm wrong?
What am I looking for in a city? Peacefulness, parks, "areas of outstanding natural beauty", high quality of living....the rest follows. Brighton is a well good idea,,but my firm doesnt have an office there
London - great, expensive, unfriendly. You've seen it and done it.
Forget about the South if you want beauty, chilled out pace of life, good quality of life then head to Manchester or Bristol. These are probably the best two options.
Manchester - The coolest city outside London. 1 hour from the lake district, the most beautiful countryside in the UK.
Forget about Birmingham or Liverpool there a bit of dump.
TheMainMan
Don Juan
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Manchester
If your less than 35yo then Manchester is the place to be in the UK. The city is a 20s-30s place.
If your less than 35yo then Manchester is the place to be in the UK. The city is a 20s-30s place.