DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
Might have to move to Britain next summer. Just curious what you guys think
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Best city in the UK?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Ahah, well I'm kinda biased.
But what you looking for in a city?
But what you looking for in a city?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
It's the gay capital of the UK.
yungahdubz
Senior Don Juan
Birmingham is pretty good in my opinion, im sorta biased too. :rock:
But it is quite a good city, lots of places to go out etc.
But it is quite a good city, lots of places to go out etc.
DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
So I take it you guys like London! I don't fancy London too much, been there about 8 times, from what I gather, it's a very expensive, dirty, noisy, non-English city. But maybe I'm wrong?
What am I looking for in a city? Peacefulness, parks, "areas of outstanding natural beauty", high quality of living....the rest follows. Brighton is a well good idea,,but my firm doesnt have an office there
What am I looking for in a city? Peacefulness, parks, "areas of outstanding natural beauty", high quality of living....the rest follows. Brighton is a well good idea,,but my firm doesnt have an office there
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
I hear london is realll expensive and kinda overated, but a place like Leeds is a college/university town and so its booming a bit... wikipedia the places and do some research man
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
TheMainMan
Don Juan
Mate, I'll tell you like it is.DrMetallica said:So I take it you guys like London! I don't fancy London too much, been there about 8 times, from what I gather, it's a very expensive, dirty, noisy, non-English city. But maybe I'm wrong?
What am I looking for in a city? Peacefulness, parks, "areas of outstanding natural beauty", high quality of living....the rest follows. Brighton is a well good idea,,but my firm doesnt have an office there
London - great, expensive, unfriendly. You've seen it and done it.
Forget about the South if you want beauty, chilled out pace of life, good quality of life then head to Manchester or Bristol. These are probably the best two options.
Manchester - The coolest city outside London. 1 hour from the lake district, the most beautiful countryside in the UK.
Forget about Birmingham or Liverpool there a bit of dump.
TheMainMan
Don Juan
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Manchester
If your less than 35yo then Manchester is the place to be in the UK. The city is a 20s-30s place.
If your less than 35yo then Manchester is the place to be in the UK. The city is a 20s-30s place.