"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Best Book on Game.

darksprezzatura

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Greetings to all the experienced DJs out here.
I've recently been unplugged.

Read and reread the Book of Pook and internalised most of its concepts.

Constantly approaching women, lifting weights, eating well, spinning plates.
It's funny how they start spinning themselves.
Life is improving.

I'm stuck at learning outward game and considered a couple of books:
1) Models
2) The art of seduction
3) The Game

Which one do you guys believe would help someone who recently internalised TRP?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Doc Kas

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Some great material on inner game and inter gender dynamics out there like Rollo, Roissy, Patrice O’Neal.

For outward game that’s a good question. Most will advocate experience I imagine but I am like you and like to compare my style with other mindsets and test congruency on what feels right and has a good foundational success.

Any suggestions fellow sosuavers?
 

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Rollo's book, The Rational Male (and his blog)
Corey Wayne, How to be a 3% Man
Author?, Daygame mastery (as recommended by @deesade )

More general books...
Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People (should be a must read for everyone)
John Grey, Men are from Mars, Women are From Venus

Podcasts....
-Most tony robbins podcasts
-Look for others like the art of manliness

The biggest thing that helps me is google... Google something that happened, read read read, articles, forums, everything you can find... then develop your own approach.... write it down!
 

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Good to see some sosuaver’s answered the call.
 

lizardking82

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Just listen to the Black Phillip shows and you will find all you need to know about women LOL Patrice is an absolute king.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"The Art of The Frog: A Tale of Wild Nights, Seduction, and That One Time a Girl Asked if She Could Stick Her Finger Up My Butt" coming out January 2018.
 

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Game with girls is a result of game with life.

Master key system by Charles Haanel
48 laws of Power by Robert Greene
Think and grow rich by N. Hill
 
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