ManUnited01
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Is it fine to ask a girl straight up if she is into you? I just get impatient and can't be bothered working on potentials that ultimately aren't interested.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Being Straight Up
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
NO! Take that back. HELL NO! You may as well change your name to AFC. All girls are potentials until you close. Get that in your head. You either like her enough to work on it and close, or you move on.
Be patient, cause if you play your cards right you'll land a big reward. Besides, a real DJ knows when a girl is into him... not "if" she's into him.
Be patient, cause if you play your cards right you'll land a big reward. Besides, a real DJ knows when a girl is into him... not "if" she's into him.
ManUnited01
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Thanks DeePee. I am just going to sit back and not worry about it. If girls are interested, they'll be the ones getting in touch with me. Girls want a guy to worry about and think "What is he up to at the moment?", not vice versa.
Infamous_Wolf
Don Juan
I think you should be feeling a vibe from the girl that she likes you. If you get that vibe, any time you're talking with a girl you want, you should point it out to her. You know, the kinda ****y casual "You are so in to me right now. You're not even trying to hide it." You should get a good reaction out of that one.
The reason why it's wrong is once you ask her if she's into you, you show her that you are attracted to her, and wants to know if she's attracted to you.
Like all DJs say, actions > words. If you want her to be attracted to you, do alittle kino, make her feel comfortable, and stuff.
But once you actually ask, you show her that you are actually interested in her, which is not what we want. By doing so, she might find you, not the "type" that she wanted.
Remember, once you display any interest, you might as well be ready to go home(alone). Unless you've been meeting the very same girl for a few dates, it's best not to show any interest.
Like all DJs say, actions > words. If you want her to be attracted to you, do alittle kino, make her feel comfortable, and stuff.
But once you actually ask, you show her that you are actually interested in her, which is not what we want. By doing so, she might find you, not the "type" that she wanted.
Remember, once you display any interest, you might as well be ready to go home(alone). Unless you've been meeting the very same girl for a few dates, it's best not to show any interest.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
Change "Are you into me?" with "I'M into you!!" - - - 
Grizou
Don Juan
That actually does the magic. If you put it in a witty and confident context. Even though I prefer the "Eventually, you will fall for me!" line or something alike.Randallpink83 said:Change "Are you into me?" with "I'M into you!!" - - -