ManUnited01
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Is it fine to ask a girl straight up if she is into you? I just get impatient and can't be bothered working on potentials that ultimately aren't interested.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Being Straight Up
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
NO! Take that back. HELL NO! You may as well change your name to AFC. All girls are potentials until you close. Get that in your head. You either like her enough to work on it and close, or you move on.
Be patient, cause if you play your cards right you'll land a big reward. Besides, a real DJ knows when a girl is into him... not "if" she's into him.
Be patient, cause if you play your cards right you'll land a big reward. Besides, a real DJ knows when a girl is into him... not "if" she's into him.
ManUnited01
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Thanks DeePee. I am just going to sit back and not worry about it. If girls are interested, they'll be the ones getting in touch with me. Girls want a guy to worry about and think "What is he up to at the moment?", not vice versa.
Infamous_Wolf
Don Juan
I think you should be feeling a vibe from the girl that she likes you. If you get that vibe, any time you're talking with a girl you want, you should point it out to her. You know, the kinda ****y casual "You are so in to me right now. You're not even trying to hide it." You should get a good reaction out of that one.
The reason why it's wrong is once you ask her if she's into you, you show her that you are attracted to her, and wants to know if she's attracted to you.
Like all DJs say, actions > words. If you want her to be attracted to you, do alittle kino, make her feel comfortable, and stuff.
But once you actually ask, you show her that you are actually interested in her, which is not what we want. By doing so, she might find you, not the "type" that she wanted.
Remember, once you display any interest, you might as well be ready to go home(alone). Unless you've been meeting the very same girl for a few dates, it's best not to show any interest.
Like all DJs say, actions > words. If you want her to be attracted to you, do alittle kino, make her feel comfortable, and stuff.
But once you actually ask, you show her that you are actually interested in her, which is not what we want. By doing so, she might find you, not the "type" that she wanted.
Remember, once you display any interest, you might as well be ready to go home(alone). Unless you've been meeting the very same girl for a few dates, it's best not to show any interest.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
Change "Are you into me?" with "I'M into you!!" - - - 
Grizou
Don Juan
That actually does the magic. If you put it in a witty and confident context. Even though I prefer the "Eventually, you will fall for me!" line or something alike.Randallpink83 said:Change "Are you into me?" with "I'M into you!!" - - -