ManUnited01
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Is it fine to ask a girl straight up if she is into you? I just get impatient and can't be bothered working on potentials that ultimately aren't interested.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Being Straight Up
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
NO! Take that back. HELL NO! You may as well change your name to AFC. All girls are potentials until you close. Get that in your head. You either like her enough to work on it and close, or you move on.
Be patient, cause if you play your cards right you'll land a big reward. Besides, a real DJ knows when a girl is into him... not "if" she's into him.
Be patient, cause if you play your cards right you'll land a big reward. Besides, a real DJ knows when a girl is into him... not "if" she's into him.
ManUnited01
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Thanks DeePee. I am just going to sit back and not worry about it. If girls are interested, they'll be the ones getting in touch with me. Girls want a guy to worry about and think "What is he up to at the moment?", not vice versa.
Infamous_Wolf
Don Juan
I think you should be feeling a vibe from the girl that she likes you. If you get that vibe, any time you're talking with a girl you want, you should point it out to her. You know, the kinda ****y casual "You are so in to me right now. You're not even trying to hide it." You should get a good reaction out of that one.
The reason why it's wrong is once you ask her if she's into you, you show her that you are attracted to her, and wants to know if she's attracted to you.
Like all DJs say, actions > words. If you want her to be attracted to you, do alittle kino, make her feel comfortable, and stuff.
But once you actually ask, you show her that you are actually interested in her, which is not what we want. By doing so, she might find you, not the "type" that she wanted.
Remember, once you display any interest, you might as well be ready to go home(alone). Unless you've been meeting the very same girl for a few dates, it's best not to show any interest.
Like all DJs say, actions > words. If you want her to be attracted to you, do alittle kino, make her feel comfortable, and stuff.
But once you actually ask, you show her that you are actually interested in her, which is not what we want. By doing so, she might find you, not the "type" that she wanted.
Remember, once you display any interest, you might as well be ready to go home(alone). Unless you've been meeting the very same girl for a few dates, it's best not to show any interest.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
Change "Are you into me?" with "I'M into you!!" - - - 
Grizou
Don Juan
That actually does the magic. If you put it in a witty and confident context. Even though I prefer the "Eventually, you will fall for me!" line or something alike.Randallpink83 said:Change "Are you into me?" with "I'M into you!!" - - -