Being On Her Rotation

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This is stemming from a thread I made about letting a girl know she's on your rotation. But I was wondering how you guys felt about being told you're on her rotation. While we were out she did mention to me she just went on a Tinder date the other day. I felt she was trying to let me know she's playing the field and I appreciated the info. However at the end of the night when I asked her on an official date, I couldn't help but feel like a beta since I basically communicated that I was okay being part of her rotation.

What do you guys think?
 

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It's a rejection for exclusivity, so it will bruise the ego especially if you like her. It's the beginning of the end.

I can also tell you it's a dangerous position to be in because from that moment forward you will be over investing in her, and she will use tricks to try to maintain your level of investment if she feels it slacking off.
 

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1) Why are you asking a woman out on an "official date" as you put it after she told you that you're part of her stable? this means you're either her orbiter or her fvckbuddy, in either case it's a bad idea to "ask her out". Women who want to make you jealous will bring up the other guys, but it'll either be made to seem innocuous or they'll tell it to your face that if you don't commit then Tony will. That she's casually telling you about the other guys she's dating is something I would interpret as either being her orbiter, or being her fvckbuddy.

2) If your default perception is that women generally don't have a rotation, then you swallowed the red pill but it got stuck in your throat. It seems to have changed your mind to find out that she has a rotation, when you should already have known this by default.

That's what I think.
 
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This is stemming from a thread I made about letting a girl know she's on your rotation. But I was wondering how you guys felt about being told you're on her rotation. While we were out she did mention to me she just went on a Tinder date the other day. I felt she was trying to let me know she's playing the field and I appreciated the info. However at the end of the night when I asked her on an official date, I couldn't help but feel like a beta since I basically communicated that I was okay being part of her rotation.

What do you guys think?
I think you should stop worrying about this type of dumb stuff. All these "one upping" games you both seem to want to play are just silly. Who cares?

This is like rookie level stuff...there is no need to let a woman know anything more than she HAS to know at any given time, if that. Stop giving out information she hasnt asked for and that she doesnt need to know. She already knows this type of stuff innately, there is no reason to even bring this up. This is weak behavior.
 

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I don't care if a chick I'm seeing is dating other dudes... why would I care? If I'm not committing to her, I would be a @ss if I expected her to just be part of my harem.
 

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I contacted a FWB last weekend,
Me: wanna hang out?
Her response: Hey Im dating someone now if it doesnt work out we can hang out again.
Me: cool, let me know

She is strictly a FWB so no dinners, cinemas, wine and dine.
Just come over, Netflix, Weed Smash and next morning bye.
Some other guy can wine and dine and take her to church.
 

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If I'm not committing to her,
Big if! He might want to commit down the road, but now it's clear that won't happen.

Assuming the girl is relatively healthy, it's not a great feeling to be "only good enough for sex." Different if she just knows you won't ever commit, of course.
 

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Her response: Hey Im dating someone now if it doesnt work out we can hang out again.
See I don't even think I could bang a woman like that even if her relationship didn't work out.
 

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See I don't even think I could bang a woman like that even if her relationship didn't work out.
Weird how women in their brains are like, oh yea I can sleep around for fun and not make a guy commit so he gets the whole cow, but then they are later dating and have to put on this facade of being a decent person and not a slut. Makes you wonder that good girl you think you’re dating, what’s realky under the surface that she hasn’t told you?
 

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Weird how women in their brains are like, oh yea I can sleep around for fun and not make a guy commit so he gets the whole cow, but then they are later dating and have to put on this facade of being a decent person and not a slut. Makes you wonder that good girl you think you’re dating, what’s realky under the surface that she hasn’t told you?
They are incredible actresses,you have to give them that. I've noticed too with several women I've dated recently is that the cutesy good girl act immediately vanishes the second they realize you know what's going on, either in a good way or bad way. I hate using the term "red pill" too much but the second you get a sh*t test from a woman who is putting on an act and you respond to it in a red pill way you'll see an entirely different woman emerge. Some of the personality changes that I have witnessed in a very short amount of time in these scenarios is actually downright disturbing. A-lot of this also has to do with how you present yourself early on, too. I'm done meeting women and playing the "good guy" angle. By that I don't mean a punk or a chump, but rather a guy who has his sh*t together and wants to vet this potential prospect for relationship material. I'm done with that, because it puts them in a different mindset, too. @fastlife has some excellent content on this in some of his previous posts but the point is, ironically, if you're looking for a woman's true personality and character, always always go for the f*ck early on.
 

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If you're not giving her exclusivity of time and attention, morally speaking, you cannot expect her to bang just you.

In a contextual read of this, this is supposed to be a good situation for you since you get the sex and as a man, that is what you are primarily interested in. If you know she bangs other guys and you wanna girlfriend/wife this one up, the problem is on you for letting yourself get carried away.

On the current situation, I just think she mentioned that to test you and your reaction and she hit the sign because she awoke insecurities in you that made you "invite her out on an official date", whatever that means. You half failed that test, put shortly for you.
 

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If you're not giving her exclusivity of time and attention, morally speaking, you cannot expect her to bang just you.

In a contextual read of this, this is supposed to be a good situation for you since you get the sex and as a man, that is what you are primarily interested in. If you know she bangs other guys and you wanna girlfriend/wife this one up, the problem is on you for letting yourself get carried away.

On the current situation, I just think she mentioned that to test you and your reaction and she hit the sign because she awoke insecurities in you that made you "invite her out on an official date", whatever that means. You half failed that test, put shortly for you.
This is how I felt. Because she reluctantly accepted instead of being excited about it. Anyway, that happened on Thursday. Nothings occurred since then. What should be the game plan at this point? All I want to do is bang this chick.
 

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This is how I felt. Because she reluctantly accepted instead of being excited about it. Anyway, that happened on Thursday. Nothings occurred since then. What should be the game plan at this point? All I want to do is bang this chick.
What I would do is just lay low for a while and come back after a week or two and invite her out for some activity. You owe this situation one more try. Until then, live life, have fun.
 

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this is great advice. I think its better to not pretend you don't care though. But what do i know?
I don;t mean he pretend he doesn't care, but I think he should let the situation cool off for now. Gets her wondering a bit and gets his attention somewhere else.
 
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This is stemming from a thread I made about letting a girl know she's on your rotation. But I was wondering how you guys felt about being told you're on her rotation. While we were out she did mention to me she just went on a Tinder date the other day. I felt she was trying to let me know she's playing the field and I appreciated the info. However at the end of the night when I asked her on an official date, I couldn't help but feel like a beta since I basically communicated that I was okay being part of her rotation.

What do you guys think?
Said women are Netflix and chill material. You don't date some girl and make out after she was out giving thoaters. Not doing it right son. Step game up. Spin more plates and faster. This one is warning you its nearly going to drop. Good riddance.
 

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I couldn't care about their rotation.

Care about getting laid instead.

All attractive (even plain) girls have loads of options. But most tend to have sex with just one, whilst keeping everyone else in a holding pattern. That's the guy she goes to watch Bridget Jones' baby with when you are "busy", so don't knock it.
It's true! If your tagging it every night or almost every night it's almost guaranteed most of the others are not getting in. Once in a while she may give out a sample, but most women don't go back and forth. If your only hitting it once a week on a 1 hr block of time, then yo your probably sharing it. Theres a lot of women who only need it a few times a month. When they go higher than that it's because they are competing with slvtty friends.
 

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They are incredible actresses,you have to give them that. I've noticed too with several women I've dated recently is that the cutesy good girl act immediately vanishes the second they realize you know what's going on, either in a good way or bad way. I hate using the term "red pill" too much but the second you get a sh*t test from a woman who is putting on an act and you respond to it in a red pill way you'll see an entirely different woman emerge. Some of the personality changes that I have witnessed in a very short amount of time in these scenarios is actually downright disturbing. A-lot of this also has to do with how you present yourself early on, too. I'm done meeting women and playing the "good guy" angle. By that I don't mean a punk or a chump, but rather a guy who has his sh*t together and wants to vet this potential prospect for relationship material. I'm done with that, because it puts them in a different mindset, too. @fastlife has some excellent content on this in some of his previous posts but the point is, ironically, if you're looking for a woman's true personality and character, always always go for the f*ck early on.
This. It all comes down to INCENTIVES—the only way to ever truly know a girl’s character is if she has nothing to lose by revealing it to you or nothing to gain by selling you a front.

If some of the guys here heard the kind of things women tell me (and especially the sort of glee with which they tell it), it would break their sense of reality. One of my closest friends is convinced that I just happen to run into the biggest wh0res over and over and over—but none of them start out that way & none of them would be that way for him or any guy who they could benefit from an association with if they pretended to be a ‘good girl.’

You can push just about as far down the rabbit hole as you like, and it gets pretty weird, but there’s something refreshing about connecting with someone on a more genuine level than they can usually express, the sex is unreal & I do meet some really good ones (but it’s rare).
 

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What do you guys think?
In my experience, the most highly interested women never ask who I'm seeing, and they dare not mention who they're seeing.

I suspect that most women have a rotation of men, and regardless of how I truly feel about it, I am convinced that it's best to convey to her that I could not care less.
 
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