"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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being nice, but still getting the girl

trd323

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When we say we should be the man, AND have confidence does that mean we dont have to be chivelrous(sp) like opening doors, paying for dinner, etc? or do we still do that stuff
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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do whatever you want, dont do it because you are getting pressured from her.

Doors, your walking you in front of her..open it and let her in.

Dont open it just because you tihnk you should or whatever.

Shes just another guy-friend remember?

Nothing special.
 

Bonhomme

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Do what you want

It's not (within bounds of reason, or course), what you do, so much as how you do it.

Having elan beats the hell out of cluttering your mind with lots of gambits and rules.
 

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Originally posted by trd323
When we say we should be the man, AND have confidence does that mean we dont have to be chivelrous(sp) like opening doors, paying for dinner, etc? or do we still do that stuff
Depending upon the situation. IF there is REAL chemistry, and IF the woman is gonna "put out" sure.

Not for the "LJBF" females, let them buy their own dinner, and open their own doors.
 

PVSSY-EATER

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hey kid.....buy her Mount Rushmore if you want to!

Just dont think by you opening a door, buying her catfish, or mowing her lawn that you are going to get puzzy. Hey, you can do whatever you want just dont expect anything in return.

Thats why don juans save their money, because it gets them no where. Not unless, you screw a hooker, and I KNOWWWW you better not be doing that.
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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PRMoon

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The only thing I'll buy for a girl when we first meet, and if i'm looking to f*ck her is alcoholic beverages. I never go out to dinner, to the movies, or anywhere around town (Well sometimes to casino's but then i'm gambling and she's drinking anyway) other then bars then back to my house or hers. I want to make it as clear as possible that I want to have a very physical relationship with this girl. After we've had sex then i'll take her out to dinner on our next date and I MIGHT pay but usually i'll expect her to pay for the next one, and there had better be some more sex coming soon or I won't even bother calling them ever again.

Ofcourse that's if I definately want a physical relationship with a girl. My current girl...well the same thing happened with her, but we chill and hang out too... but then we have sex... so never mind it ALWAYS applies when i'm dating a girl.
 

PVSSY-EATER

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save your money on the alcohol too...some guys believe that this gets them horny, no, YOU get them horny, the alcohol just makes the sex better. Still............I buy mine she buys hers, or she buys both of ours....heheehehehehe
 

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Yes be nice to her!

didnt ur mother tell you anything?

u dont have to go to opening doors and all that..unless you want to.

you dont have to put on a show or be a jerk.

what you need to be is COOL, CALM, and CONFIDENT.

this will take you on a good course.

people assume if you are nice you are AFC..thats not true
 

AIR-PILOT

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Who said that being nice is bad? Girls love nice guys...they even love nice guys who know how to take control, confidence is a must. Nice Bad Boy :crackup:
 
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