"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
being nice, but still getting the girl
- Thread starter trd323
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Doors, your walking you in front of her..open it and let her in.
Dont open it just because you tihnk you should or whatever.
Shes just another guy-friend remember?
Nothing special.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
It's not (within bounds of reason, or course), what you do, so much as how you do it.
Having elan beats the hell out of cluttering your mind with lots of gambits and rules.
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Depending upon the situation. IF there is REAL chemistry, and IF the woman is gonna "put out" sure.Originally posted by trd323
When we say we should be the man, AND have confidence does that mean we dont have to be chivelrous(sp) like opening doors, paying for dinner, etc? or do we still do that stuff
Not for the "LJBF" females, let them buy their own dinner, and open their own doors.
PVSSY-EATER
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Just dont think by you opening a door, buying her catfish, or mowing her lawn that you are going to get puzzy. Hey, you can do whatever you want just dont expect anything in return.
Thats why don juans save their money, because it gets them no where. Not unless, you screw a hooker, and I KNOWWWW you better not be doing that.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Ofcourse that's if I definately want a physical relationship with a girl. My current girl...well the same thing happened with her, but we chill and hang out too... but then we have sex... so never mind it ALWAYS applies when i'm dating a girl.
PVSSY-EATER
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frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
didnt ur mother tell you anything?
u dont have to go to opening doors and all that..unless you want to.
you dont have to put on a show or be a jerk.
what you need to be is COOL, CALM, and CONFIDENT.
this will take you on a good course.
people assume if you are nice you are AFC..thats not true