"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
being nice, but still getting the girl
- Thread starter trd323
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Doors, your walking you in front of her..open it and let her in.
Dont open it just because you tihnk you should or whatever.
Shes just another guy-friend remember?
Nothing special.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
It's not (within bounds of reason, or course), what you do, so much as how you do it.
Having elan beats the hell out of cluttering your mind with lots of gambits and rules.
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Depending upon the situation. IF there is REAL chemistry, and IF the woman is gonna "put out" sure.Originally posted by trd323
When we say we should be the man, AND have confidence does that mean we dont have to be chivelrous(sp) like opening doors, paying for dinner, etc? or do we still do that stuff
Not for the "LJBF" females, let them buy their own dinner, and open their own doors.
PVSSY-EATER
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Just dont think by you opening a door, buying her catfish, or mowing her lawn that you are going to get puzzy. Hey, you can do whatever you want just dont expect anything in return.
Thats why don juans save their money, because it gets them no where. Not unless, you screw a hooker, and I KNOWWWW you better not be doing that.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Ofcourse that's if I definately want a physical relationship with a girl. My current girl...well the same thing happened with her, but we chill and hang out too... but then we have sex... so never mind it ALWAYS applies when i'm dating a girl.
PVSSY-EATER
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frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
didnt ur mother tell you anything?
u dont have to go to opening doors and all that..unless you want to.
you dont have to put on a show or be a jerk.
what you need to be is COOL, CALM, and CONFIDENT.
this will take you on a good course.
people assume if you are nice you are AFC..thats not true