"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
being nice, but still getting the girl
- Thread starter trd323
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Doors, your walking you in front of her..open it and let her in.
Dont open it just because you tihnk you should or whatever.
Shes just another guy-friend remember?
Nothing special.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
It's not (within bounds of reason, or course), what you do, so much as how you do it.
Having elan beats the hell out of cluttering your mind with lots of gambits and rules.
JackPrescott
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Depending upon the situation. IF there is REAL chemistry, and IF the woman is gonna "put out" sure.Originally posted by trd323
When we say we should be the man, AND have confidence does that mean we dont have to be chivelrous(sp) like opening doors, paying for dinner, etc? or do we still do that stuff
Not for the "LJBF" females, let them buy their own dinner, and open their own doors.
PVSSY-EATER
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Just dont think by you opening a door, buying her catfish, or mowing her lawn that you are going to get puzzy. Hey, you can do whatever you want just dont expect anything in return.
Thats why don juans save their money, because it gets them no where. Not unless, you screw a hooker, and I KNOWWWW you better not be doing that.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Ofcourse that's if I definately want a physical relationship with a girl. My current girl...well the same thing happened with her, but we chill and hang out too... but then we have sex... so never mind it ALWAYS applies when i'm dating a girl.
PVSSY-EATER
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frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
didnt ur mother tell you anything?
u dont have to go to opening doors and all that..unless you want to.
you dont have to put on a show or be a jerk.
what you need to be is COOL, CALM, and CONFIDENT.
this will take you on a good course.
people assume if you are nice you are AFC..thats not true