"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Being late 15 min for first date good or na?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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marmel75
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^^^This
devilkingx2
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think of it like a neg, you neg a model, not a chubby 6 or a depressed goth chick (those are just examples, you're probably not going to date chubby 6's nor victoria's secret angels, but you get the idea)
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Igetit!
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Why don't you try this tactic at your place of employment a few times,and let us know how it goes.
Show up 30 min late and some women will have sex with you.
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marmel75
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Lol she would be on a date before you got there with someone else
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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When I finally walked in and sat down she was BRIGHT RED. I was expecting some sort of rage, but instead she just said "I was psyched to meet you and now over the twenty minutes I've just become really nervous."
That's right - for some reason she was nervous and embarrassed because I was late...!
Anyway I broke the usual rules and picked up the meal as recompense, drove her home, made out in my car.
IMO be a gent about it. Don't bust your arse to get their early (and if she leaves after 10 mins she's just a b*tch), but at the same time if you're very late - you should offer to pick up the tab or otherwise politely apologise (without being a siss about it).
devilkingx2
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This is the other thing to consider.
On the one hand, an HB6 is used to being treated badly by guys, so if you want that first date anal show up with flowers. But she'll be way more forgiving of your bull**** for the same reason
On the other hand an HB9 is likely used to being treated like a princess, so if you show up looking like you walked out of bed, still wearing your pajamas, 15 minutes late. You'll stand out from every other guy but also consider that she'll probably not put up with a whole lot of BS because she doesn't have to
It's a balancing act, show up too late and she'll be on a different date when you get there, but if you find the sweet spot and show up only a little late you'll give off a really alpha IDGAF vibe