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Being late 15 min for first date good or na?

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I often get late 15 min because thats how bus goes.

Is it good or na? I think some immediately may reject u for it, meanwhile for some women its actually hot
 

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Once an appointment is made i make it a point to be there at least 10-15mins early.

At times i do arrive late but I'll inform them earlier.

It's polite and firms up your reputation.
 

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Its stupid that You think about that.. your taking This stuff too serious. Just show up When You show up.,, being late on purpose is lame
^^^This
 

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the more attractive/secure the girl the later you should show up

think of it like a neg, you neg a model, not a chubby 6 or a depressed goth chick (those are just examples, you're probably not going to date chubby 6's nor victoria's secret angels, but you get the idea)
 

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I often get late 15 min because thats how bus goes.

Is it good or na? I think some immediately may reject u for it, meanwhile for some women its actually hot

Why don't you try this tactic at your place of employment a few times,and let us know how it goes.
 

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Is it good or na? I think some immediately may reject u for it, meanwhile for some women its actually hot
Show up 30 min late and some women will have sex with you.
 

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I try to always be on time for everything I do in life. But if I am going to be late even by 5 minutes I always call or text to let the person know. That would be to a woman or anyone. About the only time I won't do that is for like a doctor appointment who I know that if my appointment is at 10am and I get there at 10:05, I'm not gonna see the doctor until 10:50 anyway so they can just deal with it.
 

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I don't know about that. If you leave an HB 9 sitting at the bar I'd be surprised if she was alone for long. I'd assume you can leave a chubby hb6 at the bar for a couple of hours before some guy has had enough beers to crack on
 

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I don't know about that. If you leave an HB 9 sitting at the bar I'd be surprised if she was alone for long. I'd assume you can leave a chubby hb6 at the bar for a couple of hours before some guy has had enough beers to crack on
Lol she would be on a date before you got there with someone else
 

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First date with my ex I was 20 mins late. Arrived on time, but got lost thanks to Google Maps Beta when I was walking to the place. Walked in circles for 20 mins when the restaurant was literally 1 street away (lol).

When I finally walked in and sat down she was BRIGHT RED. I was expecting some sort of rage, but instead she just said "I was psyched to meet you and now over the twenty minutes I've just become really nervous."

That's right - for some reason she was nervous and embarrassed because I was late...!

Anyway I broke the usual rules and picked up the meal as recompense, drove her home, made out in my car.

IMO be a gent about it. Don't bust your arse to get their early (and if she leaves after 10 mins she's just a b*tch), but at the same time if you're very late - you should offer to pick up the tab or otherwise politely apologise (without being a siss about it).
 

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I don't know about that. If you leave an HB 9 sitting at the bar I'd be surprised if she was alone for long. I'd assume you can leave a chubby hb6 at the bar for a couple of hours before some guy has had enough beers to crack on
This is the other thing to consider.

On the one hand, an HB6 is used to being treated badly by guys, so if you want that first date anal show up with flowers. But she'll be way more forgiving of your bull**** for the same reason

On the other hand an HB9 is likely used to being treated like a princess, so if you show up looking like you walked out of bed, still wearing your pajamas, 15 minutes late. You'll stand out from every other guy but also consider that she'll probably not put up with a whole lot of BS because she doesn't have to

It's a balancing act, show up too late and she'll be on a different date when you get there, but if you find the sweet spot and show up only a little late you'll give off a really alpha IDGAF vibe
 
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