Being known as a pimp @ university good or bad?

[Popeyes]

Yea is it a good or bad thing if people have been hearing that you're "pimping" alot of girls.

 

[Charm]

If a girl says, I hear youre a pimp, tell her "im so much more than that. write down your number and youll get a chance to know me better and see just what i mean"

 

[ValleyDJing]

good one. I'll have to remember that.

 

[Ace of Flames]

I'd say being widely known for anything that isnt embarassing would be a great thing.

Being known for "pimping" though.... I think you can work with that. Use a line like Charm said, and just allow for the reputation to bring women to you. Give them the chance to see the real you. They'll feel privledged.

On the other hand, if they really take the rumors to heart, you might face a lot of resistance. Then its your job to play it kool and let them decide for themselves what to think about you. If you try to disprove it, they'll most likely believe it even more.

Just be you man, either way.

 

[Ripper]

Definitely a good thing on the whole. Universities are more like school than the real world in the sense that social proof is important. Just be sure that you don't seriously **** someone over cos that could ruin your reputation.

 

[Popeyes]

Yea Btw this was posted on facebook so its not just a word of mouth thing so I'm a little worried it might be taken a little too seriously by some. Or am I just being paranoid?

 

[Ripper]

Don't worry about it dude. My girlfriends tell me it's a good thing.

 

[Nasman]

I have been working at hospital for 8 years and banged quite a few about 8 girls there. So over the years people have gotten to know me. When new girls come in they are attracted to me but girls tell them that I am bad news. It could be an advantage and a disadvantage, because when your talking to them they question you, and your motives. I have lost a couple of lays because of this. But then again you could play it like I never cared about the other girls but ur special. All around I think it is a bad thing. Because u might lose your chance with good girls. But the skanks will love u. LOl

 

[Popeyes]

Don't worry about it dude. My girlfriends tell me it's a good thing.

Thats all they said?

 

[Ripper]

Thats all they said?

What do you mean exactly? Elaborate a bit...

 

[Ice Cold]

If you have to ask, it means you don't control the situation and can't take advantage of it.

That's a bad thing.

 

[Popeyes]

What do you mean exactly? Elaborate a bit...

No I just mean like thats not all they said is it? You didn't just ask them about it and they said "it's good", or did they say a bit more, like what goes through their mind when they hear that.

 

[Popeyes]

If you have to ask, it means you don't control the situation and can't take advantage of it.

That's a bad thing.

Not sure exactly what you mean by control the situation.

 

[Ripper]

No I just mean like thats not all they said is it? You didn't just ask them about it and they said "it's good", or did they say a bit more, like what goes through their mind when they hear that.

Oh ok. Just to clear up any confusion if there is any, by 'girlfriends' I mean friends who are girls. They basically said that if a guy has lots of girls writing flirty messages on his wall (facebook) then it's quite clear he's popular and sought after. They (the girls) reckon you can tell quite a lot about someone from who posts on their wall. Also, as long as you're quite popular (and this is where guy friends come in) then you can get away with a lot of sh1t. If you're seen as some PUA or seducer (even if that's what you are!), a sort of lone wolf, then your behaviour is not so easily excused.

 

[nosmirk]

if you're looking for a LTR target = bad

otherwise, fvuck away at everything!