Why do you need someone to care for you, your not a baby anymore.Connect4 said:
My goal is not to drop a girl for another but to have many at the same time.
It's not mutual masturbation because masturbation is what you do when you can't get sex.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Being a DJ and a Virgin are compatible.
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My goal is not to drop a girl for another but to have many at the same time.
It's not mutual masturbation because masturbation is what you do when you can't get sex.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
haha, rex man I understand where you're coming from. I've never rationalized my lack of experience.. See I know, it's easier to take that route.. for me at least. To say "**** man.. I am such a fvck up.. why can't I get the chicks" But it's not like that, i ain't going to take the easy route, because in this case, it's about belief.
Not making excuses, and by the way, YOU don't have to buy into anything, my moral high horse or whatnot... I live with certain morals and so do you.
You right about the feeling of sex..I've never had it.. so I shouldn't speculate.. fine.. but at least I can see past the consequences of those actions... ya dig?
Not making excuses, and by the way, YOU don't have to buy into anything, my moral high horse or whatnot... I live with certain morals and so do you.
You right about the feeling of sex..I've never had it.. so I shouldn't speculate.. fine.. but at least I can see past the consequences of those actions... ya dig?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Just out of interest Connect4, how many girlfriends have you had? Having one that you care about... I don't agree with, but I respect your opinion. Just make sure it's not the first woman in your life.
I with connect4 on this one. A solid ltr is far more satisifing than a bunch of slags running though your life. i'll pick a women who i can trust and care about over a hot slag any day. for me bangin' a chick gets so boring after a while if you dont care about her and dont actually have, shock horror, a friendship.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"Being DJ and a Virgin are compatible?" It's all about mind set and your inner game. If the definition of being Don Juan is building attraction in a female then ofcourse you can become Don Juan with out having had sex.
I believe that you can make females fall head over heels in love with you, with your communication style, and that you can keep they're interest level high and desiring to be in your company even if you don't give them sex. Infact this is how you keep them wanting you, through sexual frustration.
Connect has an advantage over the "typical" guy when it comes to being a prize for a woman. His advantage is he has self control, where as most guys will jump at a chance any woman gives him to have sex, Connect will turn up the females attraction for him when he refuses. He would be perceived as definatley hard to get and a prize to be won.
Reading through the posts, Connect barely returns the hostility towards him and seems to respect the opinions others have of him. This shows me he has inner game and can handle rejection, the test so many females put guys through in order to see how the guy responds. This is Alpha and if he can implement this confidence with the babes guaranteed he'll be desirable to them. He'll be Don Juan.
I believe that you can make females fall head over heels in love with you, with your communication style, and that you can keep they're interest level high and desiring to be in your company even if you don't give them sex. Infact this is how you keep them wanting you, through sexual frustration.
Connect has an advantage over the "typical" guy when it comes to being a prize for a woman. His advantage is he has self control, where as most guys will jump at a chance any woman gives him to have sex, Connect will turn up the females attraction for him when he refuses. He would be perceived as definatley hard to get and a prize to be won.
Reading through the posts, Connect barely returns the hostility towards him and seems to respect the opinions others have of him. This shows me he has inner game and can handle rejection, the test so many females put guys through in order to see how the guy responds. This is Alpha and if he can implement this confidence with the babes guaranteed he'll be desirable to them. He'll be Don Juan.
Your definition of Don Juan is fvcking multiple women. My definition of Don Juan means being able to get to that stage of having a female ready and willing to fvck.wolf116 said:
Any guy can meet a woman look at a woman and fvck her in that instant, and the definition of that is a rapist.
I'm not a virgin since I was 13 and the experiences I've had with females, I've observed, sex ain't as important to them as it is to us guys. They can get sex anytime and from any guy they want. So it does help when you're a totally "different guy from the rest of them." It makes you mysterious.
Oh and my bad JackRyaJuan is the willing virgin not Connect.
Response to the OP (don't have time atm to read all the threads):
You're on the wrong forum JackRyanJuan. Despite the occasional politically correct statements you see that say we're really just trying to become "better men"; that stuff is mostly BS. This is the site you come to, to learn how to f*** and game women, and to look and feel cool while doing it. Some of us actually like f****** more than just about anything (* raises hand *). Based upon your post, you have no interest in this. Given that, you'd be best served moving along. I'm not trying to be rude, rather just wanting to save you some time. From what I understand, "Loveshack" might be a better fit for you.
If you came here "to save us from ourselves" and help us "see the light", like lukeskywalker or maybe like LMS, let me speak on behalf of several: We're not interested.
You're on the wrong forum JackRyanJuan. Despite the occasional politically correct statements you see that say we're really just trying to become "better men"; that stuff is mostly BS. This is the site you come to, to learn how to f*** and game women, and to look and feel cool while doing it. Some of us actually like f****** more than just about anything (* raises hand *). Based upon your post, you have no interest in this. Given that, you'd be best served moving along. I'm not trying to be rude, rather just wanting to save you some time. From what I understand, "Loveshack" might be a better fit for you.
If you came here "to save us from ourselves" and help us "see the light", like lukeskywalker or maybe like LMS, let me speak on behalf of several: We're not interested.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It's not my definition, Don Juan is Spanish slang for womaniser, which means "a man who likes many women and has short sexual relationships with them"jacob said:
What's the point of getting a chick to want to fvck you, if you don't want to fvck her? Impress your friends?
Like azanon said, this site is for people who have a passion for seducing women in order to fvck them. Not because you have ego problems.
SEX ISN'T AS IMPORTANT TO GIRLS! ARE YOU MAD? I have a hard time keeping up with the demand of my last two girls. If you can rock their world they will not let you leave the bedroom! My FB gets frustrated at me because I can only cvm like 3 times a day.
haha, there's a dude saying. kool. everyone to his own. but man, this is only a discussion forum where you can post anything related to DJ'ing to discuss, not like Lishy on her boyfriend's bad behaviour though. you say it's no to you, ok... connect say yes to him,ok.... it's a discussion and not the last man standing wins contest.azanon said:
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im scared for your precious little virgin eyes to tell you what I really think of this thread Connect4
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This thread is ridiculous. OP and Connect4, I think you're in the wrong forum. You cannot reconcile to yourself that you can be a virgin and a DJ at the same time. The two are fundamentally opposed IMO.
We here at SS love to fvck hot women. It's what we do. It's how we carry ourselves. How about this? Quit making excuses for yourself and go get laid. You have more than enough resources at your disposal. If you're not getting laid, then it's YOUR fault and a decision that YOU have made. Furthermore, if you don't feel that dipping your wick is a priority, then you're on the wrong site. Plain and simple. Don't feminize this site with your trash.
There's another site that would welcome this drivel. It's called Lovedump.org.
Hats off to Tits, Wolf116, and PositivityInjection and the rest who recognize this garbage.
This thread is ridiculous. OP and Connect4, I think you're in the wrong forum. You cannot reconcile to yourself that you can be a virgin and a DJ at the same time. The two are fundamentally opposed IMO.
We here at SS love to fvck hot women. It's what we do. It's how we carry ourselves. How about this? Quit making excuses for yourself and go get laid. You have more than enough resources at your disposal. If you're not getting laid, then it's YOUR fault and a decision that YOU have made. Furthermore, if you don't feel that dipping your wick is a priority, then you're on the wrong site. Plain and simple. Don't feminize this site with your trash.
There's another site that would welcome this drivel. It's called Lovedump.org.
Hats off to Tits, Wolf116, and PositivityInjection and the rest who recognize this garbage.
JackRyanJuan
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Since everyone seems to want to project onto me and decide exactly what I'm about, I'll address relevant posts separately. Just know that I'm not here to change SoSuave, I like it just fine; I was just making the point that you can CHOOSE to be a virgin and still be a DJ. If someone can refute this in depth I would love to hear it; hell, it might convince me to go out and get buck wild.
I also wanted to encourage the guys who were virgins that it's not a big deal if you have the right mindset.
What makes you think I'm in denial? Again, I'd love to hear.
Who the hell are you to think you have any idea how I think? What exactly is so diseased? What part of my thinking is bullsh!t?
"Men fvck..." no shyt, but I ask you again, does that make/prove you're a man?
I also wanted to encourage the guys who were virgins that it's not a big deal if you have the right mindset.
What the hell are you on about? Explain to me how sex does not connect two people on a deeper level, really, I'm all ears.( . )( . ) said:
Another bozo who bought the whole "2 worlds colliding as one" mysticism bullsh!t. It's SEX you bonehead.
So your in denial and found a way YOU can justify your virginity? Yay.
I personally find your way of thinking diseased. (I say "thinking" but you know aswell as I know that it's bullsh!t)
What do you want, a biscuit?
Men Fvck, deal with it. This type of rot has no place here.
What makes you think I'm in denial? Again, I'd love to hear.
Who the hell are you to think you have any idea how I think? What exactly is so diseased? What part of my thinking is bullsh!t?
"Men fvck..." no shyt, but I ask you again, does that make/prove you're a man?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.