Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Being a DJ and a Virgin are compatible.

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Connect4 said:
But out of context, you're treating these girls like cvm receptacles
Oh for fvcks sake.

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I'd put the odds on you marrying the first girl you f.uck at 92%. I will take all action on this prop bet if anyone is interested.
Done, and I'll put an extra tenner on the dim witted offspring gaining a drivers licence and putting some poor bastard in hospital.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wolf116 said:
moral code? Used?

GIRLS LOVE SEX, AFTER YOU CVM ON THEIR FACE THEY THANK YOU!
I know they do... shoot.. what's your point? They thank you for the good time, then bye!!! or maybe they come back for more right?? awesome for you! But then she goes.. hm... this guy looks cute too.. maybe he'll cvm on my face too. Thank you sir! and you, and you, and you!

Boy do I feel diseased!
 

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haha probably, i've had my chances to fvck you know. But I thought otherwise. Not on my behalf, but on the behalf of my future wife and children


:up:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Connect4 said:
I know they do... shoot.. what's your point? They thank you for the good time, then bye!!! or maybe they come back for more right?? awesome for you! But then she goes.. hm... this guy looks cute too.. maybe he'll cvm on my face too. Thank you sir! and you, and you, and you!

Boy do I feel diseased!
So, thats a good thing. Variety is the spice if life.
 

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"Done, and I'll put an extra tenner on the dim witted offspring gaining a drivers licence and putting some poor bastard in hospital."

what's this suppose to mean?
 

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It's not about turning failure into virtue.. It's not failure at all. To you maybe...

Cause sex to many is like going to the restroom and taking a piss. It's just to relieve yourself.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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But in any case, I respect all of your own rights to make your decision.. But I gotta stand up for what I believe in..

I believe in having sex. I know sex is the ****, sex feels awesome, but at the same time I believe it should be with the right woman, and it'll taste way better with that one right woman, because there's is that trust.
 

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How do you know???

Sex feels better with a stranger then in a LTR!

Sex is like going to the rest room and taking a piss ONLY if you have low testosterone levels, I'd get a blood test if I was you.
 

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well I've gotten close.. and it already feels bomb.. but I could just imagine. because there's nothing left after the sex.. no substance..
 

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well, for u guys, anyone can fvck a ***** at a brothel everyday and all your guys can satisfy your HIGH SEX DRIVE! i connect with Connect here that...lol, that sounded pretty poetic..... you got to have an emotional connection with the woman first of all if you really want to have the best sex of ur life. yes, she can be the ***** of the town and u r just another guy notch in her belt, did you know? nah, because u only care of fvcking her and thats it. u know what, its not fvcking but keeping a HB is what DJ does. Do you think only sex will make her come to you? forget it, guys. Get real.

Come on, virginity is not a prob, its someone's choice that before marriage tehy wont lose it but ya, if the right person comes and sweep them off their feet, they will do it. This is very true with most quality girls, not the girls that hang out with guys in clubs and discos and drinks like a well. it's the girls that don't think with their vaginas but with their brain as well.

come post here that u have fvcked 100 girls in the last month and swear to urself how each of them went away after a guy without telling u, or never returned ur calls or texts suddenly after sometime. go find QUALITY, dudes!

the quality not the quantity taht matters!
 

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well I've gotten close.. and it already feels bomb.. but I could just imagine. because there's nothing left after the sex.. no substance..
It's never like how you imagine it to be.

you know what's left after sex? More sex.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Virginity is a massive problem, because girls aren't attracted to a guy that can't please them. They can see it in your eyes that you don't know how to please a women and you will become too attached.

A virgin will never be a DJ!
 

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wolf116 said:
It's never like how you imagine it to be.

you know what's left after sex? More sex.
I know bro, and you can't stop. You fvck this girl and that one, and it feels great every single time... but what do you get at the end? mutual masturbation...You think she cares about you? Do you care about her? Or do you feel like just droppin her for another?
 

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Wutang and titties summed it up! Nothing else needs to be said! Quit rationalizing your lack of experience because to the initiated; it's quite sad. We'd have a lot more respect for you if you simply said, "Alright guys, I'm getting older and I'm still a virgin. I'm ready to find a chick and lose it. Anyone want to help me out cause what I've been trying hasn't been working out"

Something like THAT requires real cojones and you wouldn't get sh!t from anyone. It's easy to make excuses but you can shut up all naysayers when you take action. Believe me, no one's buying your moral high horse keep 50Gigs of porn and a tub of lotion handy cause it's better than being with a tainted angel cause I deserve better 1850's puritan bullsh!t. Seriously.
 

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By the way, Connect, you don't know how sex feels anymore than I know how it feels to be on the moon. I can SPECULATE, but I'd still just be talking outta my arse. Ya dig?
 

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It's a problem if you see it as a problem.

And about girls not being attracted to guys that can't please them.. You're right... my question is.. why does it have to be girls in the plural? Please One that you love and care about, and understand that you can be in control.You can invest emotionally..and not be an Afc. Because what is a relationship with out risk? But at the same time you understand that you control the frame at all times, and that any disrespect and they are out the door. You still the don.


I think you can be a virgin and still be a don juan.. but being a real man having responsibilities and still utilizing that don juan code, that's what I call success!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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