"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Being a DJ and a Virgin are compatible.

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I am a 22 yr. old virgin, soon to be 23. I'm not ashamed of this, and I would never lie if someone asked me about it. This post is for all the guys out there who put so much importance on losing their virginity. I just signed up as a member on this forum, but I've been reading since 2002. I don't like the number of threads recently where guys continuously put themselves down because they still have their v-card. Since when does losing your virginity make you a man? A DJ?

Sex is a powerful thing, and it is different for everyone. I personally came from a religious background, so sex is something I think needs to be experienced from a depth perspective; in other words, there needs to be more to it than just the physical act. I know many guys on here would disagree with me, but I'm simply explaining one factor in my decision not to give up my v-card just yet. If we as men are supposed to develop all areas of our lives, then why should sex be any different?

Specifically to the disgruntled virgins, and the virgins who do not CHOOSE/WISH to be virgins, ask yourselves this: How would your life change if you lost your virginity? I'm guessing it wouldn't change at all. The same things keeping you from getting laid are the same things that will hold you back in other areas of your life; it all amounts to the AFC mindset vs. the DJ mindset. Your virginity is not the root of your problems- it is your mindset.

I personally am somewhere between DJ and recovering AFC. However, I refuse to let a label such as virgin affect me negatively when there's absolutely no logical reason for it to do so. Worrying about being a virgin is AFC; worrying about fuking as many girls as possible is AFC. Being a DJ is about being a complete man, and overemphasizing sex, as has been emphasized in numerous posts on this forum, takes away the balance in your life. Whenever I hear someone talking about how many girls they fuked, I think of a bunch of high school kids having pissing matches in the locker room.

I'll add more to this later, this just all came out real quick. Feel free to ask questions if you need me to clarify, or debate.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'll add more to this later, this just all came out real quick. Feel free to ask questions if you need me to clarify, or debate.
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It all came out real quick, just like it will when you lose your v-card!
 
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You might need to talk to your doctor about low sex drive. Not to be funny, but there are many possible causes of this. When I see girl's asses hanging out of short-shorts, I want to bang them like there's no tomorrow. It has nothing to do with "being a man", and I don't want a relationship with them, I just really want to bang them and experience that.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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everywomanshero said:
You might need to talk to your doctor about low sex drive. Not to be funny, but there are many possible causes of this. When I see girl's asses hanging out of short-shorts, I want to bang them like there's no tomorrow. It has nothing to do with "being a man", and I don't want a relationship with them, I just really want to bang them and experience that.
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Haha, I read that and laughed out loud. No, I'm the same way, when I see something I like, instant horniness, I just control it. It's easier since I haven't actually had sex. Once you pop you can't stop, so the saying goes...
 
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I personally came from a religious background, so sex is something I think needs to be experienced from a depth perspective; in other words, there needs to be more to it than just the physical act. .
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:rolleyes:

Another bozo who bought the whole "2 worlds colliding as one" mysticism bullsh!t. It's SEX you bonehead.

So your in denial and found a way YOU can justify your virginity? Yay.

I personally find your way of thinking diseased. (I say "thinking" but you know aswell as I know that it's bullsh!t)

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No, I'm the same way, when I see something I like, instant horniness, I just control it.
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What do you want, a biscuit?

Men Fvck, deal with it. This type of rot has no place here.
 
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Yea man, I totally agree with you Jack.

It's good you got some religious background, it keeps you in check. While the rest of them run wild with disregard to the consequences of their actions, driven primarily by lust. They have no understanding of commitment or sacrifice. All they care about is feeling good and feeling good now. That is what a child does. This is what we call immaturity.

If you think about it..that's why the divorce rates have been going up, because people just have sex with whomever they feel like. They become so desensitized to it that when the time comes to LTR or Marriage, they can't hold it down because of their habits. So they reason, what does marriage do?

"It doesn't benefit me"

Well yeah that's not the case, it benefits everyone. It benefits you your wife and your kids.
You can be confident in your wife (who should be a virgin prior to marriage) to be faithful to you when you are married because she has shown that through her years of self control. Their will be trust. You won't have to worry every second that another dude who is more "alpha" or "dominant" is gaining higher IL.
She benefits by being in a committed relationship with her husband.
The children grow up in a healthy family with a mother and father who both understand the essence of sacrifice and self control.


I mean I am here on this forum to learn about becoming the best man that I can be and to attract the best woman possible.

That's just my honest opinion. Any one here agree with me?
Comments or opinions are welcome.
 
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:rolleyes:

Another bozo who bought the whole "2 worlds colliding as one" mysticism bullsh!t. It's SEX you bonehead.

So your in denial and found a way YOU can justify your virginity? Yay.

I personally find your way of thinking diseased. (I say "thinking" but you know aswell as I know that it's bullsh!t)

What do you want, a biscuit?

Men Fvck, deal with it. This type of rot has no place here.
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:up: I don't understand why guys come to a site like this if the don't want to do lots of fvcking.
 
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"Men Fvck, deal with it."

Yea at the right time. But unfortunately for you it doesn't matter does it?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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( . )( . ) said:
:rolleyes:

Another bozo who bought the whole "2 worlds colliding as one" mysticism bullsh!t. It's SEX you bonehead.

So your in denial and found a way YOU can justify your virginity? Yay.

I personally find your way of thinking diseased. (I say "thinking" but you know aswell as I know that it's bullsh!t)

What do you want, a biscuit?

Men Fvck, deal with it. This type of rot has no place here.
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Quoted for emphasis.
 
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that's your d!ick talking :) not your head
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My head agrees with my d!ck because it loves the feelings it gets.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Feels so good, feels so good... Nothing wrong with that.

But out of context, you're treating these girls like cvm receptacles
 
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Connect4 said:
Feels so good, feels so good... Nothing wrong with that.

But out of context, you're treating these girls like cvm receptacles
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I'd put the odds on you marrying the first girl you f.uck at 92%. I will take all action on this prop bet if anyone is interested.
 
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When the times just "right" eh? Fvck me dead I dont even think teenage girls talk like that anymore, wake up to yourself.
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The difference between me and you.. I live by a different moral code.
Those teenage girls that you fvck are the same girls that are going to **** 20+ plus other guys later down the road. She's gonna get used...but you don't care about that do you?

no offense. but this is how it is
 
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stand said:
I'd put the odds on you marrying the first girl you f.uck at 92%. I will take all action on this prop bet if anyone is interested.
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haha probably, i've had my chances to fvck you know. But I thought otherwise. Not on my behalf, but on the behalf of my future wife and children
 
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moral code? Used?

GIRLS LOVE SEX, AFTER YOU CVM ON THEIR FACE THEY THANK YOU!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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