"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
beauty is intimidating
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Social Conditioning and a whole lot of brainwashing.ssj245 said:
Practice practice practice.
Look at her and I mean REALLY look at her like shes an unidentified insect, then ask yourself "is this chick as hot as I first thought"
Once you start to look at chicks subjectively PROPERLY, its actually hard to find a REAL hottie.
Thats what I did and it worked.
Failing that just imagine her taking a dump, or b!tching about child support.
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Oh jeeezuz dont start with that sh!t, we'll get all the zombie guard poodles rushing in to scream "WOMAN HATER"!ssj245 said:
No need to go overboard mate.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
Anyways off topic.....
Beauty is intimadating for several reason. Fear of rejection. Fear of failure. You will naturally place higher value on this girl. (pedestaling)
If you dont have the fear of failure. If your ont pedestaling her. Then the above wont matter if shes HB 6 or HB 10.
Thats my 2 cents.
Some flaw you got, unless your 500 pounds or something.. isn't going to stop her from ****ing you just as it wouldn't stop you from ****ing her.
I don't feel intimidated by beauty. I seek beauty. I seek it in clothes, art, movies, women...specially women.ssj245 said:
But I still have CONTROL of myself. After all...I'm a man. I real one.
My point? I don't comprehend your thread.
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dude I LOVE YOU. YOU SPEAK THE TRUTH BROTHER. IT IS ALLL SOCIAL CONDITINING, SOCIETY AND THOSE WHO LEAD IT WANT TO CREATE FEAR IN YOU SO YOU DONT ACCOMPLISH MUCH. CUZ IF YOU DO, U START TO OVERTHROWN THEM. SEE HOW MUCH OF BASTARDS THEY ARE.
GIRLS ARE NOTHING, THE MOST BEAUTIFUL GIRL IS JUST AN ANIMAL, A LOSER INSIDE, LIKE EVERYBODY ELSE. IT IS HER SUBJECTIVE EXPERIENCE THAT MATTERS NOT WHAT WE THINK OF HER. DO NOT FEAR HER, ATTACK HER WITH POWER AND HAVE THE MINDSET THAT YOU ARE THE PRIZE. THESE GIRLS ARE NOTHING SPECIAL MAN, GUYS ARE JUST TOO STUPID TO REALIZE TO APPROACH THESE GIRLS. SHE WILL THROW GAMES AT YOU, SO WHAT? THAT DIONT MEAN ****. IT IS AN AUTOMATIC RESPONSE FROM HER. SHE DOESNT EVEN THINK ABOUT IT. DONT LET IT AFFECT YOU. ITS A TEST TO SEE IF YOU FEAR HER. IF YOU DO, YOU ARE TOOOAASSTTTTT. SHE WILL DOMINATE YOU. YOU HAVE TO MAKE HER FEAR YOU SOMEHOW.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Desdinova
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The typical human being has to relieve bladder, is clumsy as hell, scratches their ass, and is made from bones, organs, blood, water, and skin. Just like how cars with four stroke engines are made from the same stuff. They just have different shapes, colors, and features.
A rusty Ferrari is still a Ferrari.
All that really comes into play is your preference.
Bad_Lil'Pixie
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No, No, No, we are made of sugar and spice and everything nice, that is what girls are made of!!Desdinova said:
Just joking, very good perspective Des, great points!
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
Desdinova said:
wow, thats so true. what a great way of summing it all up.
All of this nonsense still goes back to how *you* feel about yourself. Insecure people are more influenced by this stuff. Be happy with who you are and beautiful women won't have the same effect on you. This doesn't happen overnight though...
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.