"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
beauty is intimidating
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Social Conditioning and a whole lot of brainwashing.ssj245 said:
Practice practice practice.
Look at her and I mean REALLY look at her like shes an unidentified insect, then ask yourself "is this chick as hot as I first thought"
Once you start to look at chicks subjectively PROPERLY, its actually hard to find a REAL hottie.
Thats what I did and it worked.
Failing that just imagine her taking a dump, or b!tching about child support.
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Oh jeeezuz dont start with that sh!t, we'll get all the zombie guard poodles rushing in to scream "WOMAN HATER"!ssj245 said:
No need to go overboard mate.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
Anyways off topic.....
Beauty is intimadating for several reason. Fear of rejection. Fear of failure. You will naturally place higher value on this girl. (pedestaling)
If you dont have the fear of failure. If your ont pedestaling her. Then the above wont matter if shes HB 6 or HB 10.
Thats my 2 cents.
Some flaw you got, unless your 500 pounds or something.. isn't going to stop her from ****ing you just as it wouldn't stop you from ****ing her.
I don't feel intimidated by beauty. I seek beauty. I seek it in clothes, art, movies, women...specially women.ssj245 said:
But I still have CONTROL of myself. After all...I'm a man. I real one.
My point? I don't comprehend your thread.
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dude I LOVE YOU. YOU SPEAK THE TRUTH BROTHER. IT IS ALLL SOCIAL CONDITINING, SOCIETY AND THOSE WHO LEAD IT WANT TO CREATE FEAR IN YOU SO YOU DONT ACCOMPLISH MUCH. CUZ IF YOU DO, U START TO OVERTHROWN THEM. SEE HOW MUCH OF BASTARDS THEY ARE.
GIRLS ARE NOTHING, THE MOST BEAUTIFUL GIRL IS JUST AN ANIMAL, A LOSER INSIDE, LIKE EVERYBODY ELSE. IT IS HER SUBJECTIVE EXPERIENCE THAT MATTERS NOT WHAT WE THINK OF HER. DO NOT FEAR HER, ATTACK HER WITH POWER AND HAVE THE MINDSET THAT YOU ARE THE PRIZE. THESE GIRLS ARE NOTHING SPECIAL MAN, GUYS ARE JUST TOO STUPID TO REALIZE TO APPROACH THESE GIRLS. SHE WILL THROW GAMES AT YOU, SO WHAT? THAT DIONT MEAN ****. IT IS AN AUTOMATIC RESPONSE FROM HER. SHE DOESNT EVEN THINK ABOUT IT. DONT LET IT AFFECT YOU. ITS A TEST TO SEE IF YOU FEAR HER. IF YOU DO, YOU ARE TOOOAASSTTTTT. SHE WILL DOMINATE YOU. YOU HAVE TO MAKE HER FEAR YOU SOMEHOW.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Desdinova
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The typical human being has to relieve bladder, is clumsy as hell, scratches their ass, and is made from bones, organs, blood, water, and skin. Just like how cars with four stroke engines are made from the same stuff. They just have different shapes, colors, and features.
A rusty Ferrari is still a Ferrari.
All that really comes into play is your preference.
Bad_Lil'Pixie
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No, No, No, we are made of sugar and spice and everything nice, that is what girls are made of!!Desdinova said:
Just joking, very good perspective Des, great points!
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
Desdinova said:
wow, thats so true. what a great way of summing it all up.
All of this nonsense still goes back to how *you* feel about yourself. Insecure people are more influenced by this stuff. Be happy with who you are and beautiful women won't have the same effect on you. This doesn't happen overnight though...
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.