"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Be the leader

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Study seduction science. Become a DJ, PUA. The leader skill comes with that.


DJ Bible is good. www.doubleyourdating.com is good..



Idea behind that is to transform yourself. That is achieved through practice.



You have a perfect opportunity in your life, your girl leaves you, and you study and become the man you always wanted to be.
 

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You're not your girl, you don't know that. You just a guy that is too hang up on your girl. If you move her tits off your eyes, you'll see better.
 

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I do. You qualifying yourself to me while bringing me down to a buddy level. You're pretty insecure.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No, i'm not. Just here, because i'm opening up and asking for advice. in fact people say i'm an *******! and my girl says i'm confident and she wishes she could be like that.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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inzone50 said:
How do i become a better leader in a relationship?
What specifically do you want to do in the relationship? What does being a leader mean to you?
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
What specifically do you want to do in the relationship? What does being a leader mean to you?
Basically, have more say. Not become a whipped guy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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inzone50 said:
Basically, have more say. Not become a whipped guy.
That's easy. Have your own opinion and be confident enough to stand behind it.
 

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Well think about what do leaders do to get there leadership status. I'll run down the basics for you.


They make the decisions . ex. You decide where your going to eat. You decide where to take her on a date. You lead her and take control of the situation. Its pretty simple.
 
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