"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Be the leader

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Study seduction science. Become a DJ, PUA. The leader skill comes with that.


DJ Bible is good. www.doubleyourdating.com is good..



Idea behind that is to transform yourself. That is achieved through practice.



You have a perfect opportunity in your life, your girl leaves you, and you study and become the man you always wanted to be.
 

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You're not your girl, you don't know that. You just a guy that is too hang up on your girl. If you move her tits off your eyes, you'll see better.
 

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I do. You qualifying yourself to me while bringing me down to a buddy level. You're pretty insecure.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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No, i'm not. Just here, because i'm opening up and asking for advice. in fact people say i'm an *******! and my girl says i'm confident and she wishes she could be like that.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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inzone50 said:
How do i become a better leader in a relationship?
What specifically do you want to do in the relationship? What does being a leader mean to you?
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
What specifically do you want to do in the relationship? What does being a leader mean to you?
Basically, have more say. Not become a whipped guy.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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inzone50 said:
Basically, have more say. Not become a whipped guy.
That's easy. Have your own opinion and be confident enough to stand behind it.
 

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Well think about what do leaders do to get there leadership status. I'll run down the basics for you.


They make the decisions . ex. You decide where your going to eat. You decide where to take her on a date. You lead her and take control of the situation. Its pretty simple.
 
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