"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Be the leader
- Thread starter inzone50
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
djSlvt
Banned
DJ Bible is good. www.doubleyourdating.com is good..
Idea behind that is to transform yourself. That is achieved through practice.
You have a perfect opportunity in your life, your girl leaves you, and you study and become the man you always wanted to be.
djSlvt
Banned
djSlvt
Banned
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
What specifically do you want to do in the relationship? What does being a leader mean to you?inzone50 said:How do i become a better leader in a relationship?
Basically, have more say. Not become a whipped guy.Francisco d'Anconia said:What specifically do you want to do in the relationship? What does being a leader mean to you?
pimpaholicskip
Banned
- Joined
- Jun 10, 2007
- Messages
- 43
- Reaction score
- 0
Yespimpaholicskip said:anyone else think that a thread that is 1 line long doesn't deserve responses?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Serialized3
Master Don Juan
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
That's easy. Have your own opinion and be confident enough to stand behind it.inzone50 said:Basically, have more say. Not become a whipped guy.
They make the decisions . ex. You decide where your going to eat. You decide where to take her on a date. You lead her and take control of the situation. Its pretty simple.