"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Be the leader

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Study seduction science. Become a DJ, PUA. The leader skill comes with that.


DJ Bible is good. www.doubleyourdating.com is good..



Idea behind that is to transform yourself. That is achieved through practice.



You have a perfect opportunity in your life, your girl leaves you, and you study and become the man you always wanted to be.
 

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You're not your girl, you don't know that. You just a guy that is too hang up on your girl. If you move her tits off your eyes, you'll see better.
 

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I do. You qualifying yourself to me while bringing me down to a buddy level. You're pretty insecure.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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No, i'm not. Just here, because i'm opening up and asking for advice. in fact people say i'm an *******! and my girl says i'm confident and she wishes she could be like that.
 

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inzone50 said:
How do i become a better leader in a relationship?
What specifically do you want to do in the relationship? What does being a leader mean to you?
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
What specifically do you want to do in the relationship? What does being a leader mean to you?
Basically, have more say. Not become a whipped guy.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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inzone50 said:
Basically, have more say. Not become a whipped guy.
That's easy. Have your own opinion and be confident enough to stand behind it.
 

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Well think about what do leaders do to get there leadership status. I'll run down the basics for you.


They make the decisions . ex. You decide where your going to eat. You decide where to take her on a date. You lead her and take control of the situation. Its pretty simple.
 
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