"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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be honest...how long has it been?

Mr Wright

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Less than 12 hours but just over a month since I've had a new girl. I'm finally going to have to say goodbye and end up with no plates for a while. The hunt will be on and I can't wait.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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adam225

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Just over a year now...
 

logicallefty

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3 days here.

Longest dry spell ever was 10 months.
 

Tiguere

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Recently got married to a foreign woman.. Shes now living with me in the states. Sex on demand rocks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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_sideways_

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Tiguere said:
Recently got married to a foreign woman.. Shes now living with me in the states. Sex on demand rocks
I loathe you...pics or it didn't happen. Lol
congrats.
 

MtnMan

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Mike32ct said:
Currently 604 days or 1.65 years

I try not to exceed two years if I can.
wow man, is this by choice? Seems difficult to go that long.
 

EvilSpirit22

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2 weeks but gonna get some today ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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8 months. Before that the last time I had sex was around 2009 when I was in a long term relationship. I met her in 2006 and split up with her in 2010. I can count on one hand how many times we had sex within that time.
 

NEPA

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I got sick and went 3 years. **** that ****. One hookup and now in a relationship tho in the past 6 months.
 

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Hmmm.... About 14hrs or so. Just got back from holidays. Saved my son from drowning and my wife got all hot and bothered by it. We ****ed for hours. :) I should save my sons life more often!
 

IBreatheSpears

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At least two months.

I would have gotten laid last week but she was asleep when I woke up with morning wood. By the time she woke up, I just wanted to go home. I suppose I could've woken her up...
Epimanes said:
Saved my son from drowning and my wife got all hot and bothered by it. We ****ed for hours
Lol'd, now I'm wondering about all the times my dad saved my dumb a­ss from drowning.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Malcontent

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bout 4 months. before that a year and half. I am very picky.
 
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