Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
Less than 12 hours but just over a month since I've had a new girl. I'm finally going to have to say goodbye and end up with no plates for a while. The hunt will be on and I can't wait.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
be honest...how long has it been?
- Thread starter _sideways_
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
6 weeks
logicallefty
Moderator
3 days here.
Longest dry spell ever was 10 months.
Longest dry spell ever was 10 months.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
_sideways_
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I loathe you...pics or it didn't happen. LolTiguere said:
congrats.
Mike32ct
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Currently 604 days or 1.65 years
I try not to exceed two years if I can.
I try not to exceed two years if I can.
countwoofoolah
Don Juan
6 days
EvilSpirit22
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2 weeks but gonna get some today 
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
NEPA
Don Juan
I got sick and went 3 years. **** that ****. One hookup and now in a relationship tho in the past 6 months.
In the present
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A long 2 years. I'm lucky I found this forum ha-ha
IBreatheSpears
Senior Don Juan
At least two months.
I would have gotten laid last week but she was asleep when I woke up with morning wood. By the time she woke up, I just wanted to go home. I suppose I could've woken her up...
I would have gotten laid last week but she was asleep when I woke up with morning wood. By the time she woke up, I just wanted to go home. I suppose I could've woken her up...
Lol'd, now I'm wondering about all the times my dad saved my dumb ass from drowning.Epimanes said:
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Malcontent
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bout 4 months. before that a year and half. I am very picky.