"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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be honest...how long has it been?

_sideways_

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How many months since you had sex?
I'm going on 3 months I think and I miss it. :/
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheMonkeyKing

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10days. 9days since wet fingers.
 

MtnMan

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19 days, 8 days since last kissed a woman
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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TheMonkeyKing

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See this one becoming a 'sticky' ....
 

Bingo-Player

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i went 6 months from january and then nailed 2 in the same day went quiet for another month and then got some again last night

this is without really chasing any tail and i didn't have to date any of them

* or spending any of my hard earned money ;) *
 

AttackFormation

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3 and a half years or a couple of months depending on if we're counting making out or not.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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No.Danny

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9 months no action. 1 month no kissing.... Main plate in cuba for a month. ......fvck!!!
 

No.Danny

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burgereater said:
i didn't study for my test and got an f. because of it i won't get into harvard. it sucks. my a was stolen. then i peed and **** in my pants. should of studyd. ate some crap.

my study skills suck. harvard should give me opportunity even though i didn't study and get an f in every subject. help. how do i get into harvard?
Ha this guy!
Let's play a game of. Guess the virgin!
Obviously not this guy. Trolling a forum of getting women!
 

El Payaso

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Four days.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

_sideways_

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You guys are some pimps.....honestly, its good to hear because I just gotta get on the ball.

been too busy worrying about bills and work and not enjoying these freaks.
 

MOTU

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I started dating again back in January, and I haven't had a dry spell of more than 3 weeks since then. 6 different chicks so far this year. But don't ask me to post their pics lol. But it was good for me to get back in the saddle with some easier chicks and then work my way up.

The one I have now is pretty fckn hot if I do say so myself. Fvcked her 2x and she blew me once between Saturday around 6pm and Sunday around 10am. D@mn it feels good to be a gangsta.
 

Kailex

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2 hours. Whoa, it's really been that long!?
 

jurry

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Theres only one time that matters to a DJ, and that time is right now.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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