Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
Less than 12 hours but just over a month since I've had a new girl. I'm finally going to have to say goodbye and end up with no plates for a while. The hunt will be on and I can't wait.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
be honest...how long has it been?
- Thread starter _sideways_
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
6 weeks
logicallefty
Moderator
3 days here.
Longest dry spell ever was 10 months.
Longest dry spell ever was 10 months.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
_sideways_
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I loathe you...pics or it didn't happen. LolTiguere said:
congrats.
Mike32ct
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Currently 604 days or 1.65 years
I try not to exceed two years if I can.
I try not to exceed two years if I can.
countwoofoolah
Don Juan
6 days
EvilSpirit22
Senior Don Juan
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2 weeks but gonna get some today 
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
NEPA
Don Juan
I got sick and went 3 years. **** that ****. One hookup and now in a relationship tho in the past 6 months.
In the present
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A long 2 years. I'm lucky I found this forum ha-ha
IBreatheSpears
Senior Don Juan
At least two months.
I would have gotten laid last week but she was asleep when I woke up with morning wood. By the time she woke up, I just wanted to go home. I suppose I could've woken her up...
I would have gotten laid last week but she was asleep when I woke up with morning wood. By the time she woke up, I just wanted to go home. I suppose I could've woken her up...
Lol'd, now I'm wondering about all the times my dad saved my dumb ass from drowning.Epimanes said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Malcontent
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bout 4 months. before that a year and half. I am very picky.