"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BB Shrug Question

Hockey Playa

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Some people have told me to use the plain overhand grip when doing BB shrugs. Obviously you wont be able to lift as heavy as weight, as opposed to the reverse grip. Other people have recommended the reverse grip, but it feels weird with the reverse grip, like its a different angle for each trap. Should i alternate reverse grips to compesate? or does it matter?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How about drop this worthless exercise and put a few more lbs on your deadlift..
 

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pull yourself up straight with your shoulders up & back and your chest out at the top of each deadlift-- all the shrug your traps will ever need.
 

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yes! one less excersise to do in the gym. now i can watch maury with the extra time
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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agreed with all above. when deadlifts started slowing, i got a trap boost from upright rows and even commando pullups (google it)
 

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6-heads lewis said:
agreed with all above. when deadlifts started slowing, i got a trap boost from upright rows and even commando pullups (google it)
upright rows work the traps tremendously well too,but you have to be kinda carefull with your rotator cuffs.
 

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wtf is up with the deal with rotator cuffs? i always hear them in injuries and stuff.whats wrong wit them?
 

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You would be suprised how much weight your forearms and wrist can hold onto. Grip it the way that feels comfortable and you can still feel it in your traps and your good to go! There is no set way to lift,do what feels comfortable and works your muscles, that's all that matters.
 

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Whatever, do shrugs.. make sure you go heavy and do not rotate shoulders - just go up and down as in "shrug, i dont know"

I am doing 90's dumbells (Work better IMO) and my grip is ridiculous now.. before i could barely hold 135 on a barbell.


people will tell you to never do shrugs, forearms, i say fvck that, do those as well
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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that looks scary. pendley rows wont give you that kind of crap right, even if it is pulling. and standing military press, too? i assume its different from sitting m. press which i heard was more dangerous.

what other weird exercises should i look out for? i have done upright rows in the past when i was a newbie isolation lifter, but i cut that crap out.

and how do we go about preventing this kind of injury?
 

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Yeah my left shoulder is screwed because I've been doing my bench wrong for almost 3 months. I was flaring my elbows out like crazy, almost completely parallel with the bar.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oh wow. i see a lot of goons do that, perhaps because they take too wide a grip? i should warn them before they become limbless
 

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ill get back to you on that bench form question, as soon as i get the reply from the pro.

one thing - ive seen pros do it like you are saying with flared arms, and that is how im doing it now.. i think that IS the proper form..but like i said, ill get back to ya
 

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cool. i find bench to be very difficult formwise compared to squats and deadlifts, as it is easy to notice who are doing them right.then we can watch and learn from them.
bench however has many variations so some buff nogood could be doing incorrect form claiming to a skinny kid that it works out the chest or the triceps more or some nonsense. then you dont know who to believe.
i still think 45 degree between arm/side of the back is a good idea, with a grip slightly wider than shoulder width before unracking. and do we touch the sternum or merely go 90 degree elbows?
 

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If you're pinching together your shoulder blades, like you should be, and squeezing your lats, like you should be, your elbows shouldn't be flared. If you flare, you're putting your shoulders at risk.
 

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Benching to isolate the pecs... flare. However, can cause shoulder stress.
Benching powerlifter style for a full body work and maximum, you're elbows are tucked in.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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