BB Shrug Question

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

shaunuk

Master Don Juan

Mar 26, 2007

simon said:
If you're pinching together your shoulder blades, like you should be, and squeezing your lats, like you should be, your elbows shouldn't be flared. If you flare, you're putting your shoulders at risk.

Yeah, when I bench, I lay back onto the bench, then pinch my shoulder blades together, and also my lats. My elbows don't flare when I do it properly like this.

-shaun

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.