Thiis chick i used to be tight with, and i suspect likes me, just asked me to go to the school basketball game with her. I'm not sure if its a date or ont. Ive also only been to one basketball game in my whole life. You guys got any pointers for me?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Basketball Game Date
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
keep you **** inside your pants, unless she wants to dribble your balls. Have fun. Don't try to put move on or anything. See how things develop. Ask who her favorite player is or whatever and talk like you know what she's talking about.
Are her friends going? If so, who does she pay more attention to?
Bring damn gum, and just be a normal DJ. You'll be fine. But you should try to establish at first whether she likes you, and this is the perfect time. If she doesn't like you, this isn't a date, and well... just ditch her.
Bring damn gum, and just be a normal DJ. You'll be fine. But you should try to establish at first whether she likes you, and this is the perfect time. If she doesn't like you, this isn't a date, and well... just ditch her.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
Next time that sort of thing happens, ask her "are you asking me out?" and give a sly smile. The smile is important.
Her response to your question without a smile (even if she was asking you out). "No, no, my friends just bailed on me and I don't wanna go alone. You being my best guy friend makes you the obvious choice."
Her response with a smile. Well, lets just say it would be a lot more favorable.
WARNING: She may NOT be asking you out. Be prepared for that.
Just for future reference. Right now, just go and have a good time. Then you can ask her out again later.
Her response to your question without a smile (even if she was asking you out). "No, no, my friends just bailed on me and I don't wanna go alone. You being my best guy friend makes you the obvious choice."
Her response with a smile. Well, lets just say it would be a lot more favorable.
WARNING: She may NOT be asking you out. Be prepared for that.
Just for future reference. Right now, just go and have a good time. Then you can ask her out again later.
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what teams are playing?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Precursor
Don Juan
yo im pretty sure he said "school basketball game" so i don't think the teams matter to us
supajsilver2
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..and since it's a school basketball game i don't know if "who's your favorite player" is such a great line.