Thiis chick i used to be tight with, and i suspect likes me, just asked me to go to the school basketball game with her. I'm not sure if its a date or ont. Ive also only been to one basketball game in my whole life. You guys got any pointers for me?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Basketball Game Date
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
keep you **** inside your pants, unless she wants to dribble your balls. Have fun. Don't try to put move on or anything. See how things develop. Ask who her favorite player is or whatever and talk like you know what she's talking about.
Are her friends going? If so, who does she pay more attention to?
Bring damn gum, and just be a normal DJ. You'll be fine. But you should try to establish at first whether she likes you, and this is the perfect time. If she doesn't like you, this isn't a date, and well... just ditch her.
Bring damn gum, and just be a normal DJ. You'll be fine. But you should try to establish at first whether she likes you, and this is the perfect time. If she doesn't like you, this isn't a date, and well... just ditch her.
ValleyDJing
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Next time that sort of thing happens, ask her "are you asking me out?" and give a sly smile. The smile is important.
Her response to your question without a smile (even if she was asking you out). "No, no, my friends just bailed on me and I don't wanna go alone. You being my best guy friend makes you the obvious choice."
Her response with a smile. Well, lets just say it would be a lot more favorable.
WARNING: She may NOT be asking you out. Be prepared for that.
Just for future reference. Right now, just go and have a good time. Then you can ask her out again later.
Her response to your question without a smile (even if she was asking you out). "No, no, my friends just bailed on me and I don't wanna go alone. You being my best guy friend makes you the obvious choice."
Her response with a smile. Well, lets just say it would be a lot more favorable.
WARNING: She may NOT be asking you out. Be prepared for that.
Just for future reference. Right now, just go and have a good time. Then you can ask her out again later.
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what teams are playing?
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I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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yo im pretty sure he said "school basketball game" so i don't think the teams matter to us
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..and since it's a school basketball game i don't know if "who's your favorite player" is such a great line.