Thiis chick i used to be tight with, and i suspect likes me, just asked me to go to the school basketball game with her. I'm not sure if its a date or ont. Ive also only been to one basketball game in my whole life. You guys got any pointers for me?
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Basketball Game Date
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
keep you **** inside your pants, unless she wants to dribble your balls. Have fun. Don't try to put move on or anything. See how things develop. Ask who her favorite player is or whatever and talk like you know what she's talking about.
Are her friends going? If so, who does she pay more attention to?
Bring damn gum, and just be a normal DJ. You'll be fine. But you should try to establish at first whether she likes you, and this is the perfect time. If she doesn't like you, this isn't a date, and well... just ditch her.
Bring damn gum, and just be a normal DJ. You'll be fine. But you should try to establish at first whether she likes you, and this is the perfect time. If she doesn't like you, this isn't a date, and well... just ditch her.
ValleyDJing
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Next time that sort of thing happens, ask her "are you asking me out?" and give a sly smile. The smile is important.
Her response to your question without a smile (even if she was asking you out). "No, no, my friends just bailed on me and I don't wanna go alone. You being my best guy friend makes you the obvious choice."
Her response with a smile. Well, lets just say it would be a lot more favorable.
WARNING: She may NOT be asking you out. Be prepared for that.
Just for future reference. Right now, just go and have a good time. Then you can ask her out again later.
Her response to your question without a smile (even if she was asking you out). "No, no, my friends just bailed on me and I don't wanna go alone. You being my best guy friend makes you the obvious choice."
Her response with a smile. Well, lets just say it would be a lot more favorable.
WARNING: She may NOT be asking you out. Be prepared for that.
Just for future reference. Right now, just go and have a good time. Then you can ask her out again later.
sparky0000
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what teams are playing?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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yo im pretty sure he said "school basketball game" so i don't think the teams matter to us
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..and since it's a school basketball game i don't know if "who's your favorite player" is such a great line.