Talking to a girl that i just met and we talked about relationships and so on because she just got dumped and i was talking how a girl dumped me because she heard i were with a lot of girls. So this girl asks me with how many girls was i and i sad "a lot" but the thing is that was before really before and now i am almost three years single i just took some time for myself and just to be single for a while you know so what would she think about me now ,does she care about that what i said or the ****?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Basically told her I'm a ****boy.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Who knows? What if she cares? What if she doesnt?
Does it matter?
Does it matter?
You guys could help. If she cares we are going to be together. If she doesn't **** it. It does matter.
IBreatheSpears
Senior Don Juan
what the fúck are you trying to say
why do people ask for help and write like this? why should anyone help you if you can't even be bothered to communicate clearly
why do people ask for help and write like this? why should anyone help you if you can't even be bothered to communicate clearly
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Does it matter if you guys will be together. Is it a good thing?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
It is because i left a first bad impression on her and i wanna fix it
you can't "fix" anything, stop caring, one of 2 or she belive on she think you lied, don't matter and you shouldn't care.
what you are asking is make no sense anyway, wha tyou need is go all the way down the page click on DJbible and read that thing up
what you are asking is make no sense anyway, wha tyou need is go all the way down the page click on DJbible and read that thing up
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So if you want us to help you you first have to help us to understand what exactly is your problem.
I think your biggest problem while dealing with this girl would be a headache on her if you communicate this way everyday.
I think your biggest problem while dealing with this girl would be a headache on her if you communicate this way everyday.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
for everyone else: he told a girl that he had been with "a lot" of girls because she asked how many he'd been with, the context is that it somehow came up that he got dumped because a girl found out he was with a lot of girls before.
to the OP himself: no use crying over spilled milk, just act cool and see how she reacts, if she stops talking to you then oh well you've gotta find another, if she still talks to you the same then you're fine
to the OP himself: no use crying over spilled milk, just act cool and see how she reacts, if she stops talking to you then oh well you've gotta find another, if she still talks to you the same then you're fine
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.