Talking to a girl that i just met and we talked about relationships and so on because she just got dumped and i was talking how a girl dumped me because she heard i were with a lot of girls. So this girl asks me with how many girls was i and i sad "a lot" but the thing is that was before really before and now i am almost three years single i just took some time for myself and just to be single for a while you know so what would she think about me now ,does she care about that what i said or the ****?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Basically told her I'm a ****boy.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Who knows? What if she cares? What if she doesnt?
Does it matter?
Does it matter?
You guys could help. If she cares we are going to be together. If she doesn't **** it. It does matter.
IBreatheSpears
Senior Don Juan
what the fúck are you trying to say
why do people ask for help and write like this? why should anyone help you if you can't even be bothered to communicate clearly
why do people ask for help and write like this? why should anyone help you if you can't even be bothered to communicate clearly
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Does it matter if you guys will be together. Is it a good thing?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It is because i left a first bad impression on her and i wanna fix it
you can't "fix" anything, stop caring, one of 2 or she belive on she think you lied, don't matter and you shouldn't care.
what you are asking is make no sense anyway, wha tyou need is go all the way down the page click on DJbible and read that thing up
what you are asking is make no sense anyway, wha tyou need is go all the way down the page click on DJbible and read that thing up
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So if you want us to help you you first have to help us to understand what exactly is your problem.
I think your biggest problem while dealing with this girl would be a headache on her if you communicate this way everyday.
I think your biggest problem while dealing with this girl would be a headache on her if you communicate this way everyday.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
for everyone else: he told a girl that he had been with "a lot" of girls because she asked how many he'd been with, the context is that it somehow came up that he got dumped because a girl found out he was with a lot of girls before.
to the OP himself: no use crying over spilled milk, just act cool and see how she reacts, if she stops talking to you then oh well you've gotta find another, if she still talks to you the same then you're fine
to the OP himself: no use crying over spilled milk, just act cool and see how she reacts, if she stops talking to you then oh well you've gotta find another, if she still talks to you the same then you're fine
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.