"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Basically told her I'm a ****boy.

jebach123

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Talking to a girl that i just met and we talked about relationships and so on because she just got dumped and i was talking how a girl dumped me because she heard i were with a lot of girls. So this girl asks me with how many girls was i and i sad "a lot" but the thing is that was before really before and now i am almost three years single i just took some time for myself and just to be single for a while you know so what would she think about me now ,does she care about that what i said or the ****?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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IBreatheSpears

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what the fúck are you trying to say

why do people ask for help and write like this? why should anyone help you if you can't even be bothered to communicate clearly
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Alvafe

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you can't "fix" anything, stop caring, one of 2 or she belive on she think you lied, don't matter and you shouldn't care.

what you are asking is make no sense anyway, wha tyou need is go all the way down the page click on DJbible and read that thing up
 

Who Dares Win

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So if you want us to help you you first have to help us to understand what exactly is your problem.

I think your biggest problem while dealing with this girl would be a headache on her if you communicate this way everyday.
 

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for everyone else: he told a girl that he had been with "a lot" of girls because she asked how many he'd been with, the context is that it somehow came up that he got dumped because a girl found out he was with a lot of girls before.

to the OP himself: no use crying over spilled milk, just act cool and see how she reacts, if she stops talking to you then oh well you've gotta find another, if she still talks to you the same then you're fine
 

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You shouldn't ever talk about you past relationships or "number"

As it stands, oh well. It's not worth worrying about.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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