Talking to a girl that i just met and we talked about relationships and so on because she just got dumped and i was talking how a girl dumped me because she heard i were with a lot of girls. So this girl asks me with how many girls was i and i sad "a lot" but the thing is that was before really before and now i am almost three years single i just took some time for myself and just to be single for a while you know so what would she think about me now ,does she care about that what i said or the ****?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Basically told her I'm a ****boy.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Who knows? What if she cares? What if she doesnt?
Does it matter?
Does it matter?
You guys could help. If she cares we are going to be together. If she doesn't **** it. It does matter.
IBreatheSpears
Senior Don Juan
what the fúck are you trying to say
why do people ask for help and write like this? why should anyone help you if you can't even be bothered to communicate clearly
why do people ask for help and write like this? why should anyone help you if you can't even be bothered to communicate clearly
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Does it matter if you guys will be together. Is it a good thing?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
It is because i left a first bad impression on her and i wanna fix it
you can't "fix" anything, stop caring, one of 2 or she belive on she think you lied, don't matter and you shouldn't care.
what you are asking is make no sense anyway, wha tyou need is go all the way down the page click on DJbible and read that thing up
what you are asking is make no sense anyway, wha tyou need is go all the way down the page click on DJbible and read that thing up
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So if you want us to help you you first have to help us to understand what exactly is your problem.
I think your biggest problem while dealing with this girl would be a headache on her if you communicate this way everyday.
I think your biggest problem while dealing with this girl would be a headache on her if you communicate this way everyday.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
for everyone else: he told a girl that he had been with "a lot" of girls because she asked how many he'd been with, the context is that it somehow came up that he got dumped because a girl found out he was with a lot of girls before.
to the OP himself: no use crying over spilled milk, just act cool and see how she reacts, if she stops talking to you then oh well you've gotta find another, if she still talks to you the same then you're fine
to the OP himself: no use crying over spilled milk, just act cool and see how she reacts, if she stops talking to you then oh well you've gotta find another, if she still talks to you the same then you're fine
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.