Talking to a girl that i just met and we talked about relationships and so on because she just got dumped and i was talking how a girl dumped me because she heard i were with a lot of girls. So this girl asks me with how many girls was i and i sad "a lot" but the thing is that was before really before and now i am almost three years single i just took some time for myself and just to be single for a while you know so what would she think about me now ,does she care about that what i said or the ****?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Basically told her I'm a ****boy.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Who knows? What if she cares? What if she doesnt?
Does it matter?
Does it matter?
You guys could help. If she cares we are going to be together. If she doesn't **** it. It does matter.
IBreatheSpears
Senior Don Juan
what the fúck are you trying to say
why do people ask for help and write like this? why should anyone help you if you can't even be bothered to communicate clearly
why do people ask for help and write like this? why should anyone help you if you can't even be bothered to communicate clearly
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Does it matter if you guys will be together. Is it a good thing?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
It is because i left a first bad impression on her and i wanna fix it
you can't "fix" anything, stop caring, one of 2 or she belive on she think you lied, don't matter and you shouldn't care.
what you are asking is make no sense anyway, wha tyou need is go all the way down the page click on DJbible and read that thing up
what you are asking is make no sense anyway, wha tyou need is go all the way down the page click on DJbible and read that thing up
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So if you want us to help you you first have to help us to understand what exactly is your problem.
I think your biggest problem while dealing with this girl would be a headache on her if you communicate this way everyday.
I think your biggest problem while dealing with this girl would be a headache on her if you communicate this way everyday.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
for everyone else: he told a girl that he had been with "a lot" of girls because she asked how many he'd been with, the context is that it somehow came up that he got dumped because a girl found out he was with a lot of girls before.
to the OP himself: no use crying over spilled milk, just act cool and see how she reacts, if she stops talking to you then oh well you've gotta find another, if she still talks to you the same then you're fine
to the OP himself: no use crying over spilled milk, just act cool and see how she reacts, if she stops talking to you then oh well you've gotta find another, if she still talks to you the same then you're fine
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.