An ex who I put on the back burner but didn't go full nc on due to occasional post-breakup sex (about once a month, a plate I suppose) recently called me and asked if I would be willing to take her new, hyper dog jogging with me to burn off some of his energy as this is her busy time of year and she'd be working late, etc. She seems to want me to look after the dog while she's gone and I have full access to her place again. She gave me a key, but we're not really hanging out. I'm pretty sure she's just using me for this task, as we haven't boned in about 2 months. I'm thinking of making an offer of sex in exchange for dog walks, as I wouldn't mind putting her back in rotation as a plate, nor would I mind walking the pup, as I could bring him to the dog park to pick up chicks. What would be the most eloquent way of making this offer? I don't really care if I see her again or not, but an easy lay is an easy lay.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Barter for Sex?
- Thread starter Sir James
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Just say "Walking the dog is fine by me. But everytime I come there I will fvck you also."
JohnyTheArrow
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Have some dignity dude.If you dont want to walk the dog dont.Dont ask for ***** in exchange like a beggar.It's not even beta its omega.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
serious why? let her orbiter friends do it you are too busy to go to her home and walk with the damn dog.
if you consider her a plate then I belice you are having sex with other woman so the bargain for it should loot ridiculous to you. serious if you have to barter that much for sex try to a hooker, at least she won't call you after
if you consider her a plate then I belice you are having sex with other woman so the bargain for it should loot ridiculous to you. serious if you have to barter that much for sex try to a hooker, at least she won't call you after