An ex who I put on the back burner but didn't go full nc on due to occasional post-breakup sex (about once a month, a plate I suppose) recently called me and asked if I would be willing to take her new, hyper dog jogging with me to burn off some of his energy as this is her busy time of year and she'd be working late, etc. She seems to want me to look after the dog while she's gone and I have full access to her place again. She gave me a key, but we're not really hanging out. I'm pretty sure she's just using me for this task, as we haven't boned in about 2 months. I'm thinking of making an offer of sex in exchange for dog walks, as I wouldn't mind putting her back in rotation as a plate, nor would I mind walking the pup, as I could bring him to the dog park to pick up chicks. What would be the most eloquent way of making this offer? I don't really care if I see her again or not, but an easy lay is an easy lay.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Barter for Sex?
- Thread starter Sir James
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
BraddH
Master Don Juan
Just say "Walking the dog is fine by me. But everytime I come there I will fvck you also."
JohnyTheArrow
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Have some dignity dude.If you dont want to walk the dog dont.Dont ask for ***** in exchange like a beggar.It's not even beta its omega.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
serious why? let her orbiter friends do it you are too busy to go to her home and walk with the damn dog.
if you consider her a plate then I belice you are having sex with other woman so the bargain for it should loot ridiculous to you. serious if you have to barter that much for sex try to a hooker, at least she won't call you after
if you consider her a plate then I belice you are having sex with other woman so the bargain for it should loot ridiculous to you. serious if you have to barter that much for sex try to a hooker, at least she won't call you after