Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Oh, my crime was saying I preferred a slimmer, childless woman in my bio.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
How dare you say that. That's discrimination against fatties, financial black holes and vaginourmous sperm whales.
I don't doubt that's the best single avenue if done well, but I would venture that a better solution still is to have multiple avenues of sourcing so you're not putting too pressure on yourself or getting too jaded over any one method.
One of the most common arguments in attraction-seduction is if a guy should focus on one style of game vs. using multiple. There are 4 forms of game. In 2013, Caleb Jones (aka Blackdragon) made this argument in the last couple paragraphs of the bottom article.
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