international82
Don Juan
Apart from DJMac23 and crazykid, is anyone here from Baltimore or even DC?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Baltimore/DC
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
FreeStyleZ
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I am, i didnt know crazykid was from this area though.
squirrels
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Baltimore. 
Imaginativeone
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Laurel Maryland here...
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
One on One
Master Don Juan
Western Fairfax County here. I'm more interested in practicing daytime cold approaches right now.
Miles Davis
Senior Don Juan
College Park... PM me if you want to link up
LucidDreamer
Don Juan
Alexandria, VA -- normally hang out in DC/18th street area.
Pap
Don Juan
Email [email protected] to join the DC Lair. Mention that Papa sent you.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
pimp in training
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im in the baltimore area. id like a wing, my friends are either in a LTR or stand in the corner the whole time at the club
Paintballguy
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I'm in Pasadena which is about 20 min from Baltimore.
PocoDiablo
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I'm in Arlington, VA.
FreeStyleZ
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im from silver spring md.... 15mins from laurel, about 30 from DC
district_line
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im in hyattsville, about 10 minutes outside DC.
I'd be into meeting up w/ others. Guys I know are in relationships or old and lame.
I'd be into meeting up w/ others. Guys I know are in relationships or old and lame.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
