international82
Don Juan
Apart from DJMac23 and crazykid, is anyone here from Baltimore or even DC?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Baltimore/DC
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
FreeStyleZ
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I am, i didnt know crazykid was from this area though.
squirrels
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Baltimore. 
Imaginativeone
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Laurel Maryland here...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
One on One
Master Don Juan
Western Fairfax County here. I'm more interested in practicing daytime cold approaches right now.
Miles Davis
Senior Don Juan
College Park... PM me if you want to link up
LucidDreamer
Don Juan
Alexandria, VA -- normally hang out in DC/18th street area.
Pap
Don Juan
Email [email protected] to join the DC Lair. Mention that Papa sent you.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
pimp in training
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im in the baltimore area. id like a wing, my friends are either in a LTR or stand in the corner the whole time at the club
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
I'm in Pasadena which is about 20 min from Baltimore.
PocoDiablo
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I'm in Arlington, VA.
FreeStyleZ
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im from silver spring md.... 15mins from laurel, about 30 from DC
district_line
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im in hyattsville, about 10 minutes outside DC.
I'd be into meeting up w/ others. Guys I know are in relationships or old and lame.
I'd be into meeting up w/ others. Guys I know are in relationships or old and lame.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
